Short update- land of the living, lol!
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Short update- land of the living, lol!
| Thu, 02-21-2008 - 1:52pm |
Hi all-
First let me thank you all for your virtual hugs, holding my hand and the incredible support! I've been a basket case lately...chalking that up to external issues coupled with HORMONES!! Eck.
Blue Eyes was THERE last night- totally checked-in and present with me. He never felt the distance I felt or thought we were off track. He did do some evaluating about us- and came back stronger. He genuinely wants to be with me. He had retreated a bit into his shell, after some painful conversations. But we are both willing to look openly at the the issues and move forward but not blindly. He was open and I felt he was there in a genuine way again-

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I'm definatley going to get that book, this weekend. Sounds like a good one, and I could use what is probably great advice behind it.
Pacific...making a note to go to the bookstore after work today.
Here you are - I was worried about you and hoping you would post us an update. I am glad you set your boundaries and he knows how you feel about the drinking.
Of course, time will tell you, as it always does.
I think the book isysmoon suggest is a very good one.
How do you feel about giving the drinking a time limit? Or better still, do you have an idea about what is acceptable versus not acceptable? I guess I was putting myself in your shoes and trying to decide - how do you decide to move in or not? What criteria do you use? That is a toughie!!
As for the disc golf group - I do think that is a great idea. It never hurts to have more interests in your life and to build and grow on your own. That can only help you!!
I did have an idea for a playdate - you had expressed in another thread that you were worried since your apt and car are small - but what if you met them somewhere? Like the movies or the zoo or whatever it is that is fun for the girls? As long as the kids are having fun that would be well received I think!! And maybe you can teach them all the disc golf? It is the idea and the fun times that matter.
I agree. Cant hurt to meet a new freind - BUT, if you are serious about BE (which obviously you are), then you need to seperate it to the group thing.
Im glad you are feeling better about you & BE. I pray it continues!
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