should he confirm a date?

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Registered: 12-27-2006
should he confirm a date?
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Fri, 01-05-2007 - 8:44pm
Hi all,
I've got my 1st Saturday night date tomorrow in 7 years! (3rd time seeing this guy--through match.com)--he asked me to go out again "soon", right after date #2 (before XMAS), I arranged for a babysitter for tomorrow (6th)--I just told her 7:00. When we set it up he said "lets work out the details later". Ok, should he be calling me (we've never spoken by phone, but I gave him my number), or e-mailing me to confirm??? I am a little freaked out that I might be stood up! And, I know I could call or e-mail him, but I am trying to change my old habits (topic for the future). Is this normal guy behavior, and am I over analyzing? Any thoughts are appreciated.
Thanks,
Mary
(obviously a little nervous...)

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 9:48am
Do you mean guy #2? (I've been discussing guy #1)
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 10:00am
I'm officially lost. I mean, the one you said is more sensitive.
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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 10:20am

Yes, he is guy # 2--because I met him 2nd, and have seen him only 2 times. We have a lot in common, he was very nervous the first time we met, but much more relaxed this weekend. We talk on the phone a lot--so in a way I feel I know him better. He went to college with a friend of mine, so he feels "safe" also.

You really want to hear about how these go? (If you do, I'm happy to share...)
Mary

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 01-09-2007 - 11:37am

Haha, I never thought about whether anyone really wanted to hear about all the sordid (and not-so-sordid) details of my life... I simply spill it!

We do want to hear about it, everything in life is a lesson, and for those of us who've been a while without dates, it's nice to live vicariously through others. It can also help us find ourselves. We can imagine how we would have reacted to certain things, and play those scenarios out.

We are also genuinely interested in each other's lives.

Moody, who loves details


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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 7:39pm
Yes - we do want to hear!!
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 9:39am
Im so glad I got to read thu till here b/c i felt badly you ended up not seeing him. I sort of, SORT OF, felt for the guy b/c at teh beginning, Carlos was like this.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 9:40am
You are doing FINE! Sounds great!!!!!
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