Should he stay overnight? DILEMMA!
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Should he stay overnight? DILEMMA!
| Wed, 12-12-2007 - 2:12pm |
OK. I met this great guy a year ago, and we've been talking casually on and off. After taking things slow and being casual for almost a year, we started talking more seriously around Thanksgiving. I went to visit him a couple of weekends ago, and had a great time.
Now, he has made arrangements to visit me this weekend and stay all weekend.

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Truth:
DO NOT apologize for doing background check!
That is great you did a background check - you are very smart.
Keep us posted!
Ok Koko, that's what I thought, but that one poster made me wonder.....
And, about background checks, I hear ya! I work
I also found a guy who had 2 counts of domestic violence from him - and by his profile you never would have thought that. So he got deleted for sure. I agree with you on that one.
Good thing you work in a law office!! That has to help!!
UPDATE!!!
My cousin agreed to keep my daughter, and I ended up having a very nice weekend with my date! We visited his mom and I got along great with her!
The only dilemma is that he wanted to meet my daughter this trip, and I thought it was a little too much and didn't quite know how to navigate it. Should I bring her by the house and she sees this man sitting there? No. Should I bring her by my cousin's house and she's like, Who's this man my mommy is with? Is this why I can't be home this weekend? No.
So I told him that we could both visit him and his mom the day after Christmas. I'd rather us come to him, than he and I come to her. It would be a little awkard. So he was disappointed in that, but I believe it was best for her overall. Wish me luck in the future! tee hee :-)
Oh wow - that is a good outcome. How far away does he live?
I agree with you about you being picky as to when he gets to meet her - better later than sooner.
I'm glad you had a good weekend, and I agree with the way you handled the request to meet your daughter.
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