Sitting on the fence pondering.....
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| Tue, 01-15-2008 - 9:36am |
Ok, so ever since breaking up with Nascar I feel sooooo relaxed and anti-stressed and no longer unhappy! Wow! That is ALOT for someone that I thought made me happy. Isn't it??
So here is my predicament...
I'm actually considering dating again. However. Here is the problem. I feel great NOT dating. I'm actually quite happy with no drama in my life. However, I tend to cause some drama too.
I'm not sure if I should leave it alone, go at it very slowly and not go exclusive with anyone, but just date or what.
Frank my X fiance said that I would drive someone in the grave trying to make me happy. Of course he lied about a lot of things and he never followed through with anything that he said, but it struck a chord.
Maybe I am REALLY picky. And maybe I am someone that is never satisfied. Or maybe I just haven't found the right one for me.
I can't figure out why I had only long term relationships prior to my divorce and now I can't seem to barely keep on even 3 months and 6 months seems

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I think I am somewhat like you too. But with my EX I was not at all picky and after that I became so picky. This one guy whom I knew before biker used to tell me that no one can make me happy.. It has to be some supernatural being to be here to make me satisfied ( meaning normal human beings cant make me happy). Which is so not true. He was so irriatting for me (the cancerian guy) and he thought that he is so perfect that I have to be just happy he is with me. We were just dating and he used to act like
Cat, you've got so much going on right now.
When I met CNDG (Nov 2007), she did not want to date at all.
I agree with Mark that sometimes being with the right person helps you grow and be a stonger person. This doenst mean you will end up together. But there is a limit to how much you can grow just being alone.
I think keepin your eyes open is
This is the exact reason that I am trying to "play the field" right now...talking to a couple of guys, a lot of first dates, a couple of second dates.
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I couldn't have said this any better. Nice and slow.
Yes pacific , I cant believe I wasted any time on him. But heck he was this seemingly perfect guy and everyone including my parents were like wow what a great guy.. while I was always irritated and stressed by him.. He liked constant drama and would act oversensitive.. I lost my freedom to express myself.. So glad I kicked him out. I wish I culd literally kick ;-).. lol.. There are moments sometimes even now I remember an incident and think hmm he deserved a kick..lol.
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