Sitting on the fence pondering.....

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Sitting on the fence pondering.....
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 9:36am

Ok, so ever since breaking up with Nascar I feel sooooo relaxed and anti-stressed and no longer unhappy! Wow! That is ALOT for someone that I thought made me happy. Isn't it??


So here is my predicament...


I'm actually considering dating again. However. Here is the problem. I feel great NOT dating. I'm actually quite happy with no drama in my life. However, I tend to cause some drama too.


I'm not sure if I should leave it alone, go at it very slowly and not go exclusive with anyone, but just date or what.


Frank my X fiance said that I would drive someone in the grave trying to make me happy. Of course he lied about a lot of things and he never followed through with anything that he said, but it struck a chord.


Maybe I am REALLY picky. And maybe I am someone that is never satisfied. Or maybe I just haven't found the right one for me.


I can't figure out why I had only long term relationships prior to my divorce and now I can't seem to barely keep on even 3 months and 6 months seems

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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 1:45pm
I think you have a good point. I want to date, but don't. So I think I should refrain from looking for it online, BUT maybe keep the options open if someone were to approach me otherwise. Maybe at a dog park?? LOL
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 2:00pm

So I think I should refrain from looking for it online, BUT maybe keep the options open if someone were to approach me otherwise.


EXACTLY!

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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 2:18pm
Dog parks are good! Whenever we take the dogs out we get a lot of questions - so maybe you will too!! LOL!!
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 5:17pm

I tell people my best selling points are my children and my dog.

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