Sleeping with more than one guy?
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Sleeping with more than one guy?
| Fri, 12-21-2007 - 7:20am |
I'm new to the whole dating scene since my divorce was just finalized four months ago. I'm 39 but look 25 to 30. I

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I did see both of them, Mr. 32 and Mr. 22 in the past two weeks. Mr. 22 and I were watching a movie at my place and things got a little hot and heavy. We have been texting and sending very flirty emails the past week. I think that he is expecting to have sex at some point. I told him that I didn't want to rush things and said that I think that we should go out on a date. I didn't hear back from him after that. That happened yesterday so we'll see what happens.
So far getting together with Mr. 32 has turned into a sexual encounter for the second time. We do have very interesting discussions about politics, religion, etc. Although when I tried to bring up the sex issue he cracks jokes all the time. I really want to know if he is having sex with other women besides me.
I have noticed that some men, say around age 35 or older tend to act
runnergirl,
Wow - this is a good post - thanks and welcome!!
It's been a while since my original post. The 23 and 22 year old guys are out of the picture.
I'm still seeing the 32 year old. He has been on vacation but has called me twice when he was able to get cell phone reception. I really like this guy and could see myself in a long-term relationship with him in the future. We're not at that point since he actually told me that he dates other women and that I could date other guys. I did ask him if he would tell me if he was sleeping with another woman if he would tell me and he said that he would. I don't know if he actually would tell me if I asked him. Also part of me does enjoy flirting and getting physical with other guys and I don't know if want to be exclusive right now, after coming out of a divorce.
I definitely have found that half of the guys I know don't give me a straight answer like the 23 year old. He had too many "I've been busy with work", "lost my phone" excuses when I asked him why he didn't return my calls. It takes a few seconds to send a text or leave a message. He pretty much faded away so there was really no closure with him. I've thought about sending him an email tell him how much I really liked him, etc. but I don't know what good it would do at this point.
Thanks for your male perspective on this issue.
When they fade away, just leave them be...
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