So how is it that anyone ever dates???
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| Mon, 02-26-2007 - 2:35pm |
I have had so many men "interested", calling, e-mail or whatever. No one ever wants to actually go out. Or they simply beat around the bush. I'm not quite sure. I don't remember this being so difficult the last time I did it. I also have been very clear that I'm not up for "booty calls". I have had a couple of men ask to "come home with me" and I said, I'm sorry but I don't do that. OLD seems the same. They e-mail, maybe even call a few times but never actually want to get together.
What is the deal? I am losing my patience with all this. They continue to call for weeks even months on end. Some calls I have quit taking because it has been going on for too long. I would figure men around 40 to be more mature. I see some of you here date a lot. I just don't know how it happens.
I said something to a male friend of mine. I ran into someone a couple of weeks ago that seemed somewhat interested in me last summer but never asked me out. I told him that I had run into B and he remembered me but couldn't quite remember from where (unbelievable). Anyhow we were talking about B and I said, "YOu know he never actually asked me out". He said "really". Then he went on to say that I'm "somewhat intimidating". I asked him what he meant and he said that I'm just so attractive that men are intimidated (that is crazy I'm average at best although I do think my friend thinks I'm that attractive). Anyhow B complimented me but again didn't ask me out and didn't ask for my number although he raced after me to get my attention as I was leaving. Am I supposed to let them know by actually hitting them over the head that I'm interested or it would be nice to get together or whatever. I have no idea.
I feel like I should just quit answering the phone!!!! GRRRRR!!!!!
HELP ME

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Hi. I meet them everywhere. I met a guy at a poker game that I was at (not many women but I have some good guy friends). I meet them at the grocery store. I have met some when I'm out getting a drink with my friends. Men are every where. I was enjoying the meeting, flirting stuff, them asking for my number (especailly some really hot young guy that asked and I declined to give it) but it is getting old. Why do they want my number, why do they bother to call? Not quite sure. I do love the flirt and if it only went that far I guess I would feel less frustrated than I do with guys who ask for my number and then call a few times and never want to get together. I only give out my cell so I don't answer the calls for the ones that kept it up for too long.
OK. Seemed like a bit of a rant. Didn't mean to.
Priscilla
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