So Nervous....help me chill!

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Registered: 09-26-2005
So Nervous....help me chill!
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Wed, 07-25-2007 - 6:42pm

Well. i am dating Mr. wonderful for about 7 or 8 months now. He's been away for a month very busy in countries where email isn't convenient. I got 3 nice short emails from him. None romantic, but he's not romantic, so there.

Well he's coming back tomorrow. Talk to him twice since he got back in the states and he was happy to talk to me on the phone but not gushing, but then again, he's not a gushy kind of guy.

I bring some baggage to the table, I've been dumped a few times after guys return from vacation.

I'm nervous as hell! I don't want to lose this one too. I know there's absolutely nothing I can do if he's "done some thinking..." on his trip.

I see him in about 24 hours and I am just about pulling my hair out.

Time for a bubble bath, tea, maybe a good stiff drink. I don't know.
HELP!!!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 9:11pm

I think you will be fine. Get prettied up and hide that baggage deep in the closet somewhere. The past does not have to be your destiny. And it sounds like he made a good effort to keep in touch.

Come back and tell us how much fun you had.

DEEP breaths - you will be fine!

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Registered: 09-06-2006
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 9:49pm

I agree...I don't think you should worry. When you see him act like everything is fine and no big deal with a ton of confidence. If you're acting like something is wrong, it might show and send off a mixed signal. Take your bubble bath and look forward to tomorrow!

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 8:33am
Thanks so much. I feel better this morning. I am so excited to see him!
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Registered: 07-01-2005
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 12:04pm
I hope it all goes well!! ((HUGS)) relax and have a great time!

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Thu, 07-26-2007 - 12:07pm
WEll we DEFINITELY want to know how it went, so don't forget to give us a update ASAP!