So today's question is....

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So today's question is....
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Wed, 03-23-2005 - 4:39pm

J said that she was going to call me tonight, before she left town for the weekend.

Anyone want to lay off any bets on this one?

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Mon, 03-28-2005 - 10:36am

Saying you're going to call and then not calling is very inconsiderate especially early in the game when people don't know each other very well.

Sure, she could have gone out of town without calling first. But, she said she was going to call. She didn't call because she didn't want to. She's not that interested at this point. If he wants to build interest, he'll have to back way off.

If she's taking things slow to protect her own heart, that's fine. Don't say you're going to call and not do it. That's not protecting yourself, that's hurting somebody else.

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 4:28am
I applaud that! Very true. If your going to do something, do it. Don't say you will and not. It's like making plans for a date and not picking them up. You sit and wait.

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