Somebody just shoot me

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Somebody just shoot me
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 2:37pm

And put me out of my misery!

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 3:34pm

Now listen, you are funny, stunning, smart and a total catch. This was obvious by his lack of running out the the restaurant like his hair was on fire. Instead he enjoyed your company, talked about future plans and gave you a hug. Its all good girly...enjoy!!!


You are to funny!


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Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 3:46pm
I think it is crazy that I was so nervous. He is very down to earth and easygoing so really no reason to be nervous, yet I was a bumbling idiot today and not my usually calm and collected self. I think it is the "OMG I am dating again!!!" nerves kicking in.
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Registered: 11-22-2006
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 3:51pm
Dont worry so much. If you were my girlfriend I would race over there, make you a cup of tea, and make you promise me that you were not going to apologize anymore to him or text him or email him until you hear something back. I know you are shooting yourself right now but you probably internalized a lot of the jitters so your perception of what he picked up on is way off I bet. So count on that and dont make it worse by drawing attention to it or talking about it to him. Let it go and wait for Sat and things will be fine!!! I think you are right that it is just dating jitters. Dont be so hard on yourself and dont assume he noticed anything unless he asks you first!!!


Edited 1/15/2009 4:13 pm ET by citylife74
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 3:52pm

Awww. I bet he'll think it was cute that

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 4:24pm

Savannah, you are just too cute!

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 5:22pm

You are so cute!


I bet he was as nrevous as you... he just hid it lol. Just keep looking forward to Saturday. And when you go out then, remember that he is a nice guy and he is lucky to have found YOU to go out with! Nerves are good...proves you are kinda into him!!

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 5:29pm
Thanks everyone! I am calm again and have shaken off the nerves. BTW... that was my first second date. :) I am making progress.
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 6:15pm
Yay on the first, second date!! :) Glad your nerves are falling in line. Have fun this weekend!
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 6:36pm

woo hoo... congratulations on the first second date. how awesome.


hey, i like the idea of a glass of wine before the third date to calm your nerves.


i'm sure from his pov, he didn't notice the jitters as much as you felt them... he was probably nervous too. how cute.


so...

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 6:52pm

Funny thing, I went out shopping for clothes and came home with just a pair of shoes. LOL!

I don't know what we are going to do Saturday night. We originally talked about seeing a movie but I want to do something that has a little more activity to it because I think that may help ease the nerves. Any ideas??? The only thing I can come with is bowling and I am not much of a bowler.

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