Somebody slap me!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
Somebody slap me!
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Wed, 01-02-2008 - 12:49pm

I mainly lurk here but also post once in a while.

Cat
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2007
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 4:50pm

Learning, have you gone to any counseling for your past marriage and the issues from that? It sounds like this guy could be great for you, but you are doubting too much. Trust me, I KNOW how that is. You are so used to the other shoe dropping, the bottom to fall out, the disappointment that ANOTHER relationship isn't going to work, but then you freak out and end up saboutaging it yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 10:00pm

Truth - welcome - and thanks for your kind words and help I must say I agree!

To our dear first poster - learningtofly2005 - maybe it would help for you to journal stuff privately- and then you will learn to trust him more.

You can also spill out the stuff from the past - and realize that needs to stay in the past.

Also, we are here for when you guys are in conflict - to help and support you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 10:21pm

I agree with Truthseeker that maybe you didn't have enough "me" time in between to work on yourself.


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