Someone SMACK ME!!!!!

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Someone SMACK ME!!!!!
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Tue, 04-29-2008 - 8:55pm

I am so nervous. Not sure why.....MCDAD called me to double check to see if I was still coming! I said yes I was. All these things are rolling around in my head.....what if's, etc!!! You'd think this was a first date!!!


Keep cool


Keep cool...breathe!!!

~~Tiny


I want

~Karen
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:03pm

Why do I have a feeling that you're considering taking him back?




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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:13pm

I have considered it but I keep reading everyones advise and am going into it with my eyes open. I've even written about what I want from a man who I'm going to be with. So I have that in my purse and I'll excuse myself to the ladies room if I need to to reread it.


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~Karen
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:15pm

nothing wrong with taking him back.. per se.. depends on what he says and how the conversation goes...


be true to yourself... think ahead of time what your needs are... define some boundaries.... go into it PREPARED...... there is no wrong answer..... sometimes people change their mind... sometimes people face a few fears.... ya just don't know.... but what you do know is what YOU want....


If you absolutely don't want the FWB... then define what you DO want... you want him to take you OUT.... do you want him to connect emotionally? whatever it is... define it... talk about it... and make a good decision.... based on fact, not fears, not wishful thinking, and not out of lonelyness...


Good luck.


Loonybunny

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:17pm
sounds like you ARE prepared... You go girl.
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Registered: 11-22-2006
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:17pm
just be careful with your heart this time around. Honestly in your place, assuming you still have feelings for him it would be very hard to do the right thing but if you are thinking he might deserve a second chance I would do so as you agreeing to date him - no exclusivity - just dating and the real kind, not the over to his house for the nookie kind. Tell him you are willing to consider him but he will have to woo you like any other bachelor and let him ask you out properly and actually date you this time. that would be my advice for you - and ONLY if you feel you have to give him a second chance.
good luck and big hugs over there...
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 04-29-2008 - 9:19pm

I know how his words really pulled at you and you want to jump at the chance for him to be what you want.


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