Son-of-a-B X has filed a court motion!

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Son-of-a-B X has filed a court motion!
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 8:46am

I am in total disbelief. He wants to play dirty? I will play right back at him - & *I* dont NEED to play dirty OR lie like he does, since I have all the evidence on my side. & given the fact that he has been agreeing w/ the court ordered psyc after every visit with him,

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 8:51am

(((Rebecca)))... when it rains it pours doesn't it.

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 8:55am

What a BIG TURD he is! Big hugs to you! Don't let this bother you. I know you are raging! But he's not going to win. You know that, we all know that. He's just being dramatic and trying to make your life a living hell. Don't let him get to you like this. Just ignore it. I know you can't, but come on! WE ALL KNOW this guy is full of sh** and so does the Doc, the courts, everyone! Don't let him ruin your Valentine's. I'm sure he's doing whatever he can to try to hurt you, but dont' give him the satisfaction of letting him see that!

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 8:58am

Talked at least to the psyc just now - feel somewhat better.

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:05am
AND .... let me tell you. If i have to go to court over this, I am filing for FULL CUSTODY. I am taking off ANY kid gloves i have worn. If i have to be in court & pay my atty, i may as well get all i can b/c he is NOT a safe parent.

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:11am
Oh Rebecca - I am so sorry he took the stupid route. YOu are so right to take off the gloves as you say and if you do end up in court, get as much remedied as possible with all of the evidence you have. He will lose everything he had left by pushing the envelope and maybe learn once and for all you are not his puppet anymore. It is so sad he needs to learn the hard way but in the long run it is of course best that he be left with nothing but the ability to someday ask you if he can prove to you he can do better, and hope you give him the opportunity to do so eventually with time. It is so clear you should have full custody and he should be denied visitation. This gives you the opportunity to achieve both possibly with the documentation you have. Maybe pushing the envelope and pushing things forward to court is a blessing in disguise somehow....
I know you feel enraged though and I am so sorry you are dealing with any of this.
All my best...
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:12am

Agreed - maybe this is a blessing in disguise!

I cannot imagine or fathom the stress this must cause you. I have a funny feeling he is doing this to get your back up and then won't show up in court.

Hang in there, sweetie!! Hugs to you - and on Vday, too. I will keep my fingers crossed. I really don't think he can win this one - you really have done your homework!!

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:17am
Do you think he did this purposly on this day?

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:27am

Ok, This all makes me sick, but its time.


Spoke w/ the paralegal, my atty is in court.


She said the order ONLY says he MUST attend co-parenting counseling with the specific doc. So yes, I am in contempt in keeping her from him. But i pretty much assumed that. Thank GOD the psyc will go to bat for us.


She also said "J (my atty) said this AM, 'we have got to deal with this custody issue', so at this point, since we are going to court anyway, we need to get it all done at once". So ... they

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:27am

Yup, it's time to play hardball.

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:33am

No. They filed on Feb 7th. It then went to my atty. & then my atty mailed it to me. It just happened to arrive today! (actually, i must have come yesterday b/c i never checked mail - dd was really ill - & i found this early this AM b4 my mail came today!)


Court date is Feb 25th. SOON!

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