Sounds like a package deal

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Registered: 04-15-2006
Sounds like a package deal
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Fri, 02-01-2008 - 10:27pm
I met this very nice guy.
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sat, 02-02-2008 - 5:59am
Well, you are smart to ask this question. And the answer is that you will only know the answer to your question with TIME. Any relationship is a risk - is he worth it? Sounds to me like he is if he became attached to a child and understands his importance to that child. He would become that way with you and perhaps your own child/future child. He says he won't go back with the mom so you have to believe him. And then see what happens. I would give it a shot. Keep us posted - and hopefully the others here might even have experience with a situation like this?
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Sat, 02-02-2008 - 10:54am

As Judy says, time is very important here.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Sat, 02-02-2008 - 11:01am

He said he had considered adopting the kid