spider sense is tingling

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Registered: 12-30-2005
spider sense is tingling
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Fri, 05-02-2008 - 10:12am

ok, i have never been on a date before. I only started e-mailing and talking on the phone with a guy i met on POF. He is away working but we will meet in 2 weeks.


But....when we talked on the phone the 2nd time..he brings up his ex, and tells me a little bit of their problems, and what she does to aggravate him, and all the thigns he has done for her..blah blah...


Why is is telling me this? He doesn't even know me..? Does he think i want to hear that?


Also he told me that his ex won't let him have the family dog because she thinks he is mean to it...


Tingle..tingle..tingle..

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 10:44am

Run Forest Run !!!!! Next!


Always trust the spidey sense it never lies !

The T Girl
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 11:00am

Yes!!! Run!!!!


While it's good for him to have a person he CAN vent to... a potential date is not the place for that!! You don't want to end up in a relationship with someone who is constantly bitter and griping. Did your conversation include anything else? Or was that a significant topic?


He needs a counselor, not a date- if all he wants to do is talk about the ex-relationship.


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 12:35pm
~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 12:36pm

Run Forest Run !!!!! Next!


LOL ..EXACTLY!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 4:30pm

ROFL!


I love your sense of humor, PacSun!


~b~

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 4:53pm
VERY GOOD! A picture does speak a thousand words - we need one of those around here for an icon for posting!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 5:12pm

Yes, we DO!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2005
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 5:16pm

Great flag, Pac!

Cat
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 10:10pm

This is why it's important to LISTEN and trust your gut.


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Registered: 03-15-2004
Fri, 05-02-2008 - 10:40pm

Tingle away!

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