STEAMY HOT weekend
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STEAMY HOT weekend
| Mon, 06-23-2008 - 12:45pm |
OK did I get your attention?? LOL!! It was steamy hot weather. I mean sweltering! Plus the humidity was oh, like about 800 percent. Ever try putting on make up in that kind of humidity? And lets not even talk about the hair.
I spent 99 percent of my time in the pool. There was no sense in getting out because you never really dried off. Friday night I went to a friends house with a pool who I had met through Blue Eyes. We just chatted and it was fun- DD swam with her friends.

I'm glad you survived the heat!
It is really nice how that we are such good friends we can now discuss these things very easily and without games or hiding. It was refreshing even if we did not make any more decisions.
That sounds sooo amazing Pac Sun. The two of you have really evolved...and there seems to be a clarity to your relationship. It sounds more and more like a budding friendship.
Pacific, you DID catch my attention with that opening line!!!!
I have to say- I did have a steamy hot weekend here myself. :-D :-D
With Hiker coming back to town, we had some serious make-up sex happening. Not as in making up after a fight, but making up after lost time. It had been too long!! Saturday evening, he also cooked for me. Can't beat a man who can cook AND clean up after himself, too! Grilled seafood (shrimp, salmon and scallops) and veggies.
Hiker is such a keeper!!! But it's also odd that I'm not wanting to rush into sharing spaces, either. I like having my own home and my own place. But I do love him and his company and our time together. I'm just glad that we're on the same page with it though- otherwise we'd probably end up breaking up- if one of us wanted more right away... or if one of us didn't want what we have going.
I'm glad you can be around BE and have it be comfortable, Pacific! I was hoping it wouldn't be awkward after all that's happened recently.
That's crazy that you had to ice down your fish!!!!! Is there not any other way to keep them cooler? We're hot here too- but thank God for air conditioning!!
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Hey Rosie~
Yes, the easiness was a good thing, and it does feel that we are more able to understand one antother now and respect our differences. It is the basis of a good friendship..and
I know...my poor little fishies. The only other way is to buy a 800 dollar tank chiller! And I just don't have that kind of money lying around, lol!
I'm glad that Hiker is back and your'e "making up time"
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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LOL, love the intro line, but was suspecting it was more weather related.
You do realize if it is that hot in CA it is totally baking in AZ, as in 110+. My car thermometer said it was 120 yesterday, but that reads off the pavement.
QB
You are going to make all of us jealous with that line!! And what an idea to keep the fishies cool?
Thanks for the update and keeping us posted!
Ah.. yes.. you caught my attention.. LOL... I'm spending a lot of time in the pool too.. My girls just love it.. DD5 can now do flips and somersaults underwater.. DD4 just realized she can touch the ground on the 3 foot section... I think by the end of summer they will be doing synchronized swimming.. and i'll have a smoking tan!
I totally agree that it's best to have those kinds of heart-to-hearts when not in a heated argument. Great job!
And despite everyone else egging you on with the new crush.. i think IF you are trying to make things work with BE, the crush is a distraction and may come back to bite you..... like with guilt or something.
IF however you are on the fence with BE and not sure if you want to be with him, then explore the crush.. it could be telling you that you need to move on...
But in either case i wouldn't spend time on a crush if it's just a distraction from making the tough decisions.. or a distraction from dealing with how you really feel about BE... i had a therapist once call this "triangulation" ... i'm not a psychologist.. but the gist of it is that whatever you are not dealing with one person... you balance it with a third party.. when the healthy thing is to deal with it one on one... hope i'm making sense...
Psychology says the triangle has three points... the Victim (you), the Persecutor (BE) and the Savior (new crush).... just something to watch out for....
With love,
Loonybunny