OMG that is too funny! I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing with you because I so could have posted this exact same thing last week. Don't worry. I know that if my parents were in town I might be busy with them or something. Hugs...it will get better JL
hahahahaha I have to go for a tightening tomorrow. ouchie
OK, seriously? I think DJ is just digesting the information you've given him. Let him have some cave time and let him come back to you. I totally get the part about going crazy over something that before was totally normal. Sounds a lot like my thing with NC actually. We would go a few days with no talk if he was having a weekend with his kids (out of town) or if he was busy with work, we'd play phone tag and not really talk for a couple days but rather exchange messages. Now I find myself "needing" affirmation and assurance he's missing me etc. Logic tells me he does, but when we don't talk, when
Oh I am jealous. I have a long ways to go, prolly another 6 mths, then surgery, then 6 mths more for fine tuning. BLAH I hate having braces lol
I hear ya loud & clear, but believe me, don't cave and contact him. He knows where you stand, he'll come around, he really is most likely just processing everything. Being a guy.
I'm going through something very similar with NC right now. So I will hang tuff with you. Fill your time with ANYTHING lol start a really good book, like a thriller or mystery, something that will fill your free time when you're not dealing with your kids, start a project you've been meaning to but just haven't got around to yet, call up old friends, family anything to pass the time and just enjoy your own company. Don't get swallowed up by this. I can relate to the feeling of being pissed off too for feeling this way at all. I don't do vulnerable very well either hahahaha sometimes being a girl sucks. I wish sometimes I could process like a guy would just to not feel so, well like THIS lol
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should have just had them wire my mouth shut
OMG that is too funny! I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing with you because I so could have posted this exact same thing last week. Don't worry. I know that if my parents were in town I might be busy with them or something.
Hugs...it will get better
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hahahahaha I have to go for a tightening tomorrow. ouchie
OK, seriously? I think DJ is just digesting the information you've given him. Let him have some cave time and let him come back to you. I totally get the part about going crazy over something that before was totally normal. Sounds a lot like my thing with NC actually. We would go a few days with no talk if he was having a weekend with his kids (out of town) or if he was busy with work, we'd play phone tag and not really talk for a couple days but rather exchange messages. Now I find myself "needing" affirmation and assurance he's missing me etc. Logic tells me he does, but when we don't talk, when
AF????
Since I know you like these, have one and simmer down.
Oh I am jealous. I have a long ways to go, prolly another 6 mths, then surgery, then 6 mths more for fine tuning. BLAH I hate having braces lol
I hear ya loud & clear, but believe me, don't cave and contact him. He knows where you stand, he'll come around, he really is most likely just processing everything. Being a guy.
I'm going through something very similar with NC right now. So I will hang tuff with you. Fill your time with ANYTHING lol start a really good book, like a thriller or mystery, something that will fill your free time when you're not dealing with your kids, start a project you've been meaning to but just haven't got around to yet, call up old friends, family anything to pass the time and just enjoy your own company. Don't get swallowed up by this. I can relate to the feeling of being pissed off too for feeling this way at all. I don't do vulnerable very well either hahahaha sometimes being a girl sucks. I wish sometimes I could process like a guy would just to not feel so, well like THIS lol
I can relate to the anxiety you are feeling!!
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