Still haven't heard anything

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Still haven't heard anything
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Wed, 10-01-2008 - 12:13pm
What a goof I am!!!
 

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 10-01-2008 - 7:24pm

Hi Soccermom!!

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 7:58am

Guys are big chickens. No you shouldnt have your mouth wired shut. lol. Us women should be able to discuss whats on our minds without guys getting scarred away. I hope you hear from him. When someone tells me they like me I feel good about it. Its a complement isnt it? So why do men run and hide when they hear it.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 8:13am

You know, I have to agree. I mean we are supposed to let them have their "cave time"? I think these attitudes allow some men to get away with bad behavior in the name of "I need my space to work this out in my head...". For all his flaws (and goodness knows there were MANY), my ex never seemed to need "cave time".

I think any MATURE male who is REALLY interested won't necessarily run away and hide when he hears something nice. I think too many like playing around to keep their options "open". If they don't want to get close to someone, why are they dating? If they want casual, why don't THEY specify that up front, instead of making us guess? Then if we can't figure out their motivations, we have to have "the talk", to clear it up for ourselves, and they head for the hills, saying WE are putting the pressure on.

Oops, sorry, that turned into a bit of a rant, didn't it?

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 11:50am
YOUR RIGHT!!! IT IS BAD BEHAVIOR!!! Any word yet?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 3:09pm

Got it, lol.

 
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 4:05pm
He must have gotten lonely out in that old, drafty man cave.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 4:34pm

We gotta stay out of the crazy woman zone at all costs, LOL.


LC, you crack me up.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 6:00pm

Hey Sunshine,

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 6:34pm

He is free until 8pm for work but I'm going to limit our time this afternoon to just an hour or so and cut out early.

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