Stood up!

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Stood up!
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Sat, 08-16-2008 - 10:20pm

I'm so freaking upset with Medic right now, I don't even know how I'd approach him, so I've decided I'm just not speaking.


I have 1 or 2 days a month where I'm off work and I do not have my girls. You guys have heard me complain about how I covet those days and god help the man who stands me up and ruins a rare free night.


Well, this goes WAY beyond my free night. What a rare thing that Medic and I BOTH had all day Saturday off together! So crazy rare, and a week ago we were both excited about it.. then I found out my parents were going to be in town!


So, my parents agreed to watch the girls for Medic and I so we could enjoy our night out. So, not only was a stood up.. I was stood up in front of my parents! I spoke to him on the way there, and he told me to call him when I found out what time I could get out of the hotel. So I called, left a msg.. got no answer. Called an hour later and then gave up.


I'm just in shock.. this is not the man I was dating 8 days ago.. so much has changed but yet he claims nothing has changed. I'm pretty down and out tonight. :(


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Sat, 08-16-2008 - 11:09pm

That is just awful and it boggles my

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 12:30am

SOMEthing is up with this guy!!!


Im so sorry!!!!!

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 6:05am
Oh TJ that is awful. Huge {{{hugs}}} coming your way.
So selfish & thoughtless of him. I wonder what his excuse will be?
I remember being stood up when I was a teenager & crying in Mum's arms ......
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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 11:09am

It's just

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 11:59am

I'm so sorry, T_J!!! But I must agree with lernintolove for a bit here- and wonder if there was any chance that something happened to him while he was on the way?? I hope not- but at the same time- I also hope that would be the reason for his no-show, not that he ditched you on purpose.


Have you heard anything yet, or is there anyone you can call to check up on him (to make sure he is okay)?


It IS very odd that he has done such a turnaround after chasing you since the beginning. But he DOES sound busy with his classes as well. Though I agree with you that he isn't too busy to just send a text now and then, too. (((((((((hugs)))))))))))

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

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"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 12:34pm

I, too, am so sorry about what happened.

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 1:22pm

I've

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 5:29pm

Well, his reason is this...


"Yes I got a msg from you! At 8:30 pm and you were mumbling something about its a wash"


I was like umm, I called at 3:00pm, and I said if I don't hear back from you soon its going to be a wash.


I'm just backing off.. backing way way off. I've been turned down tomorrow also because he has to be at clinicals at 7am tuesday. So I'm just done for a while. I'm just going to have to back off and see if I'm missed. I can only make plans and be turned down so many times ya know?


He made a comment again about how busy he is and such and I once again told him I know, and I respect what he's doing and such. However... "You had time to catch me, now how about finding time to keep me?"


Time will tell, and I need to try to stop getting all upset over it all.

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 9:12pm

That does seem odd that he had so much time to chase you- but then suddenly he doesn't have any time to even maintain anything you guys got started. WTF?!??


But yeah- I would back waaaaay off as well. No sense in wasting too much more energy on him if he isn't using any energy in return. So has the other guy been trying to contact you at all during any of this? (Can't remember his exact name- HC or something like that) Or did you tell him that you were going to concentrate on someone else and "broke it off" with him?


Like the bumper sticker I've seen says... The more I know men, the more I love my dog.


;-)

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Mon, 08-18-2008 - 12:20am
"You had time to catch me, now how about finding time to keep me?" - DID you say this? Its a GREAT line! lol
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