Stood Up

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Registered: 02-28-2005
Stood Up
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Wed, 05-18-2005 - 1:17pm
I went out with a guy on Friday and we had a great time. He called the next day and told me he had a great time. He called on sunday and asked me to the movies on monday or tuesday. I told him I had plans with my best friend on Monday but tuesday would be great. He said tuesday was fine. He told me to call him after I was done with my plans on Monday. I called him Monday night at 10:30 and left him a message. I didn't hear from him on Tuesday so I called his cell and his home and left a message on both. He never called back. So I guess I am not sure if the plans were final and I was really stood up. I am just confused he started the calling and asked me out and I only called him if he asked. He was the one to make plans like going to the movies, having me over for dinner helping me clean out me son's fish tank. Did I do something wrong?
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Registered: 10-18-2003
In reply to: teamevans65
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 1:35pm

You did nothing wrong.

Kim

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-11-2005
In reply to: teamevans65
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 5:30pm
No I don't think you did anything wrong. I wouldn't call anymore I would just wait. I'm sure he has a reason, since he did make the plans. :)
Stef
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: teamevans65
Wed, 05-18-2005 - 7:22pm

I agree with the others. You didn't do anything wrong. There is probably a reason. But you should NOT call him - he should be the one to make the next call.

Keep us posted!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2005
In reply to: teamevans65
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 6:12pm
He called and decided he really didn't want to go out. So I pretty much told him thanks but no thanks. Don't have time for games. It's hard enough to find a decent guy as it is.
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: teamevans65
Thu, 05-19-2005 - 7:09pm

You are very smart to figure this out so quick. Good job!

Onward - you will find one that wants to call and wants to take you out. Accept nothing less.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
In reply to: teamevans65
Sat, 05-21-2005 - 3:37pm

He stood you up. You didn't do anything wrong. He found something else to do. Don't take it personally and don't call him again. You left him a message on each of his phones. Do not call that man again.

If he calls you, I would let him leave you a message and I would not be in any hurry to return his phone call.