Stood up AGAIN!? U MUST B KIDDING!?!
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| Mon, 07-23-2007 - 10:06am |
ARGGGGGGGGGHHH!!!
He stood me up again!
And this time I am beyond furious. HE RUINED MY ENTIRE WEEKEND!
First of all, Friday night WE were supposed to go out alone. Then he asked if we could go see his friend Pat play at his band. I said cool. Then he said his friend is coming from out of town and if he and the guys girlfriend can come with. I said SURE! Then, I tell him to just go out with the guys on Friday night and I'll do my own thing. Well, he ends up going over to this guy and the girlfriends place and they all went out to see Mr.History's friend play in the band. So instead of him going out with the guys, he ends up going out with the guy and the girl. Fine, no big deal. I made my own plans. Mr. History decides to meet me later. He shows up bombed. We stayed a little while where I was and then he took me to his place. WE WERE supposed to get up early the next morning for the Winery. HE ends up tooo tired and starts whining around about his knee hurting that he's tired. I tell him to just forget it then. He said, we still have the next day and that he'll call me at night. THAT NIGHT, he calls me late and says he was really really sick and that he is sorry for what happened and he's feeling awful. I!!! LIKE AN IDIOT, feel sorry for him. Ask him if I can get him something, etc etc. He says no, I just want to go to sleep again, I'll call you tomorrow.
SUNDAY MORNING...... He doesn't call. I send him a text, if he's ok. No response. I go about my business and around 3:30 send him another text that I'm REALLY worried about him now because I haven't heard from him all day. NO answer. I decided to drive over to his place. His car is in the parking lot. I go upstairs and his room mate answers. She says: He isn't here, he left with his friends this morning!!!!!!
THEY ALL WENT TO THE LAKE!!!!!!!!!!!
I called him and left him a voice message:
Thanks for blowing me off, you could of just been a man about it and said you didn't want to be with me.
He contacts me at 9pm and says he got my message: That he was at the lake with his guy buddies and that he left his phone at home and wasn't blowing me off. That I've been SO angry these last couple of days and that it scares him.
ANGRY? NO FREAKING WAYYYYYYYY!!!!! YOU THINK?>???? Anyone wonder WHY??? I would just be the slightest FREAKING IRRITATED!!!!!!!
I wrote him back this:
Reminder!!!! After yesterday's fiasco you said we'd have today. REMEMBER NOW? I THOUGHT
YOU were maybe REALLY SICK, so I was worried. INSTEAD you stood me up AGAIN. I have been nothing but worried about you, thoughtful and respectful and you have been nothing but incosiderate and disrespectful to me and my time. This weekend was total proof of that. It shows the lack and concern you have of me as your girlfriend, let alone as a person. Blame whatever you want on me. I could give a DAMN.
*******Of course I haven't heard back from him, but I am so LIVID! THAT I could just absolutely punch the day lights out of him.*********
How DARE HE! What the HECK!!??? I have been so nice to him. I have done so many nice things for him and he has been such a jerk. A selfish, incosiderate JERK! Always about him!!! I'm just so FURIOUS!!!
One minute he apologizes and the next he's walking all over me again! What in the world!!???
And then he says I have been so angry the last couple of days and it SCARES HIM?? What am I supposed to say. HE ruined the ENTIRE weekend.
I'm so angry. I really want to give him a piece of my mind. I'm so livid that I can't seem to see anything BUT red. I wasn't even this angry with the last two people I dated.
I've been SO cool about him being with his friends and spending time with them. They are all not working or they are all doing something so he has all day with them. THAT ASS had the odasity to tell me that he is REALLY in love with me and blah blah blah blah. I am glad I never said it back and I'm glad that I told him that I didn't believe it, because I didn't think it was enough time for him to feel that way. WHAT A JOKE!!!
I'm so furious that I just HOPE he contacts me again, because then I am going to really give him a piece of my mind and FLIP OUT!
Oh and forgot to say: HE APOLOGIZED SATURDAY night for RUINING our Saturday plans. HE APOLOGIZED and did it all over again on SUNDAY!!! WHAT IS UP WITH THIS GUY???!!!!!!!!!!!
Edited 7/23/2007 10:08 am ET by myprecioustwo

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I can promise you that without a good picture you won't get any interest. ALL MEN seem to want a woman that they find attractive. I just care that a guy isn't terribly unattractive or too old or have a comb-over. My thoughts focus more on the person and less on the outside package. I am pretty attractive but I'm not 25 anymore so that will make a difference in who I will meet.
Keep up the picture and just date lots of guys. I think you should not make plans to see someone every day until they have proven they can live up to what you want. Call when they say, keep plans unless there is a real reason not to, and just give you what you want. Go on lots of dates with different guys throughout the week. I certainly haven't had your trouble. I really need to get some picks and get moving. Maybe I will try to get some taken this weekend. It is hard to get someone to take them since most of my friends are single moms as well. I have a very busy and odd schedule the next couple of weeks. I am ready to start dating, I just have to put forth a little dating effort.
Priscilla not putting forth enough effort in the dating arena to actually get some dates
I am going to Wilmington next weekend. I have my kids 2 weeks in a row because of the trip I had planned. I am on the Durham Ladies city team and we have a match against Wilmington on August 4th. In order to participate, I had to trade weekends with my ex so I had my kids this past weekend and will have them again this coming weekend. They should then be with their dad for the next two weekends.
If you have any plans to head down next weekend, let me know. I would love to meet you IRL. I know your "single" person time is coming to an end very soon. Make the most of the time that you have.
How old are your children?
Priscilla
Okay Cat, I am going to have to agree. He needs to go! One time, honest mistake. Second time KNOWING that he needs to be considerate of YOUR time as well, his mistake. You make plans, you stick to them unless an emergency comes up.
Plain and simple.
Jennifer
Trust me, there ARE guys, with and without kids, who aren't into being social butterflies every free moment.
There are also women, with and without kids, who ARE into that.
You simply have to find someone more compatible, but naturally you're not going to know they aren't until they prove it, which sucks and wastes time.
As for the profile without a pic, I think if your headline is really attention grabbing, you might get some views or emails without one, but I know when I performed a search, it was always for profiles with pics only. I guess for me it was just because I felt men who weren't posting pics had something to hide (such as a marriage) from the world, and the serious ones were more apt to pay attention to the pics they used and they profile they posted.
Good luck, and I'm sorry to hear that Mr History is, well, history, but it's undoubtedly for the best.
Moody, just catching up
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