Stood up AGAIN!? U MUST B KIDDING!?!

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Stood up AGAIN!? U MUST B KIDDING!?!
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Mon, 07-23-2007 - 10:06am

ARGGGGGGGGGHHH!!!
He stood me up again!
And this time I am beyond furious. HE RUINED MY ENTIRE WEEKEND!
First of all, Friday night WE were supposed to go out alone. Then he asked if we could go see his friend Pat play at his band. I said cool. Then he said his friend is coming from out of town and if he and the guys girlfriend can come with. I said SURE! Then, I tell him to just go out with the guys on Friday night and I'll do my own thing. Well, he ends up going over to this guy and the girlfriends place and they all went out to see Mr.History's friend play in the band. So instead of him going out with the guys, he ends up going out with the guy and the girl. Fine, no big deal. I made my own plans. Mr. History decides to meet me later. He shows up bombed. We stayed a little while where I was and then he took me to his place. WE WERE supposed to get up early the next morning for the Winery. HE ends up tooo tired and starts whining around about his knee hurting that he's tired. I tell him to just forget it then. He said, we still have the next day and that he'll call me at night. THAT NIGHT, he calls me late and says he was really really sick and that he is sorry for what happened and he's feeling awful. I!!! LIKE AN IDIOT, feel sorry for him. Ask him if I can get him something, etc etc. He says no, I just want to go to sleep again, I'll call you tomorrow.

SUNDAY MORNING...... He doesn't call. I send him a text, if he's ok. No response. I go about my business and around 3:30 send him another text that I'm REALLY worried about him now because I haven't heard from him all day. NO answer. I decided to drive over to his place. His car is in the parking lot. I go upstairs and his room mate answers. She says: He isn't here, he left with his friends this morning!!!!!!

THEY ALL WENT TO THE LAKE!!!!!!!!!!!

I called him and left him a voice message:
Thanks for blowing me off, you could of just been a man about it and said you didn't want to be with me.

He contacts me at 9pm and says he got my message: That he was at the lake with his guy buddies and that he left his phone at home and wasn't blowing me off. That I've been SO angry these last couple of days and that it scares him.

ANGRY? NO FREAKING WAYYYYYYYY!!!!! YOU THINK?>???? Anyone wonder WHY??? I would just be the slightest FREAKING IRRITATED!!!!!!!

I wrote him back this:

Reminder!!!! After yesterday's fiasco you said we'd have today. REMEMBER NOW? I THOUGHT
YOU were maybe REALLY SICK, so I was worried. INSTEAD you stood me up AGAIN. I have been nothing but worried about you, thoughtful and respectful and you have been nothing but incosiderate and disrespectful to me and my time. This weekend was total proof of that. It shows the lack and concern you have of me as your girlfriend, let alone as a person. Blame whatever you want on me. I could give a DAMN.

*******Of course I haven't heard back from him, but I am so LIVID! THAT I could just absolutely punch the day lights out of him.*********

How DARE HE! What the HECK!!??? I have been so nice to him. I have done so many nice things for him and he has been such a jerk. A selfish, incosiderate JERK! Always about him!!! I'm just so FURIOUS!!!

One minute he apologizes and the next he's walking all over me again! What in the world!!???
And then he says I have been so angry the last couple of days and it SCARES HIM?? What am I supposed to say. HE ruined the ENTIRE weekend.

I'm so angry. I really want to give him a piece of my mind. I'm so livid that I can't seem to see anything BUT red. I wasn't even this angry with the last two people I dated.

I've been SO cool about him being with his friends and spending time with them. They are all not working or they are all doing something so he has all day with them. THAT ASS had the odasity to tell me that he is REALLY in love with me and blah blah blah blah. I am glad I never said it back and I'm glad that I told him that I didn't believe it, because I didn't think it was enough time for him to feel that way. WHAT A JOKE!!!

I'm so furious that I just HOPE he contacts me again, because then I am going to really give him a piece of my mind and FLIP OUT!

Oh and forgot to say: HE APOLOGIZED SATURDAY night for RUINING our Saturday plans. HE APOLOGIZED and did it all over again on SUNDAY!!! WHAT IS UP WITH THIS GUY???!!!!!!!!!!!




Edited 7/23/2007 10:08 am ET by myprecioustwo

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 4:06pm

I want to clarify. I offered another way of looking at what an apology means. I am NOT applying this view specifically in your situation.

Mark who is not out to rile ANYONE up (for I don't want to apologize for doing that *wink*)

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