Strange day.. sigh @ my life!

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Strange day.. sigh @ my life!
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:48pm

So, an X contacted me today. I must admit I was a little excited, I really liked the guy but knew we could never be anything but friends. So, come to find out his hidden agenda in talking to me today. He's been dating someone for three months and wants me to have a 3some! Are you kidding me? Seriously? Sigh... at least my X's are still thinking of me in some way or another lol. (I said NO!)


Then I had this strong desire to let Hemmy know that I was not pleased with his no call after his romantic kiss night (saying he would call the next day). I made it very clear to him that I was not looking for a casual fling, those men are a dime a dozen. So, I just couldn't help it and sent this text "Wow, nice ditch. Impressive!" lol.


Next, next, and next! Jeeze lol.


And omg as I write this Hemmy sends me a yahoo IM.. ack!


Guess I'll be giving an update on this update soon.


"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:53pm

at least my X's are still thinking of me in some way or another lol


Good to know you still got it chica....LOL..and can i just say ewwwww what a jacka$$...LOL


Patiently waiting for the updates update

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 3:15pm

Well, he's trying to be slick. He made it out to be like he just randomly msg'd me, said he left his phone at work last night. I'm offended he finds me to be so stupid.


He just kept saying that he's had a really busy few days, and getting home very late from work. I told him well ya know.. one email or text that things are crazy busy goes a very long way. So.. here is the one line that saved him from a 100% NEXT: I need to work on my communication, I'm sorry. Its just been such a long time since I've even been interested in someone beyond a first date. I don't know how to act.


Its true, we have talked for a while now.. and I know he hasn't dated anyone in a while. He said he's gone out on a few dates since his divorce, but just nobody caught his attention.


Anyway, I think I'll be giving him a few chances here.. but I'm really not expecting anything. Nobody has grabbed his attention, and I think I may have only semi-grabbed his attention.


I about died laughing at a typo I did having that freaking text msg on the brain.. jeeze I laughed so hard over this one lol:


Michelle: Fair enough, text topic?
Michelle: *next topic! LOL


"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 3:19pm

i think its besst to go at it like my hair color...nice and easy....LOL or you could go the route of your x...nice and sleezy and grab his attention in a dif way...LOL Ohhh sorry...got the giggles after your "text" topic. Ahhh give him another chance i guess...maybe just maybe he was a bit wigged out and didnt want to come off to 'strong'...not sure...im the last person to give advice on giving to many chances....

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 3:20pm

OMG on the guy who wanted a 3-some ewwww.....


I'd give this new guy a chance though...sounds like he may be sincere, but who knows?

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 3:29pm

Oh cool. I lived in Kernersville for 4 years and even though that was the worst part of my marriage (basically a prisoner in my own home for nearly a year) I loved that place. I really got out and made some great friends through the Ymca. I swear that Ymca saved my sanity.

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 4:15pm

Flattering, yes- but STILL!!! LMAO!!!


Did he honestly think you'd say YES???


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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 4:34pm

Lol so funny! I've had the same girlfriends since I was ten.. I couldn't even imagine one of them doing that. I would flip the heck out!


Cracked me up though he said Oh Michelle, c'mon... I just need to get a few drinks in you and you'll losen up. I said R, after coming to me with this idea of yours what in the hell makes you think I'd want to go out for drinks with you and your girlfriend? And even if you didn't come to me with this proposal what in the hell makes you once again think I'd go out for drinks with you and your girlfriend?!?! haha

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 4:52pm

Lol- no doubt!


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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:23pm

I think that sometimes guys figure that we, as single mothers, are just SO DESPERATE for attention that we will agree to this type of behaviour/ request.

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:25pm

Can I just say EEEEWWWWW??

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