Strange day.. sigh @ my life!

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Strange day.. sigh @ my life!
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:48pm

So, an X contacted me today. I must admit I was a little excited, I really liked the guy but knew we could never be anything but friends. So, come to find out his hidden agenda in talking to me today. He's been dating someone for three months and wants me to have a 3some! Are you kidding me? Seriously? Sigh... at least my X's are still thinking of me in some way or another lol. (I said NO!)


Then I had this strong desire to let Hemmy know that I was not pleased with his no call after his romantic kiss night (saying he would call the next day). I made it very clear to him that I was not looking for a casual fling, those men are a dime a dozen. So, I just couldn't help it and sent this text "Wow, nice ditch. Impressive!" lol.


Next, next, and next! Jeeze lol.


And omg as I write this Hemmy sends me a yahoo IM.. ack!


Guess I'll be giving an update on this update soon.


"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:28pm
I agree with nice and easy, and I didn't want him to like immediatly be stuck to me like glue. But c'mon you give me this romantic drive by kiss, its our first kiss, you say you'll call the next day.. and three days later not a word? Kinda urked me.
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:42pm

Yes, I have found that to be the case and even had one guy say something pretty much to that effect!


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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:43pm

What is with some of these guys??

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 6:49pm

Actually??

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 7:32pm

Thankfully my ex met his wife on match.. so he encourages it. He is very supporting of me dating, and I think he honestly wants me to find someone. I don't think its so much because he cares about me, but he thinks I'm flakey and I need the help.


Well, I raised the girls as a single mom since the day they were born, he was NEVER around and so far so good lol. I love how high and mighty he gets now living in his little country club community.

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 7:34pm




OMG!

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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 7:40pm
Sounds like x has been watching Swingtown.
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 7:50pm

"but he thinks I'm flakey and I need the help."


LOL!


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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 7:54pm

Basically Hemmy apologized a bazillion times and promised to call tonight. I think he said promise about three times lol. Like I said, Hemmy dosn't need to kiss me and then be in my life 100% just do what you say you're going to do.


"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 8:19pm
OMG - what a day you have had!!!! But the ending is better - no to the threesome and Hemmy is calling.