Strange twist

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Strange twist
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Sat, 05-17-2008 - 11:35am

with the Hot IT guy.

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Registered: 03-25-2002
In reply to: msmsavannah
Sat, 05-17-2008 - 11:44am

For the first date, i'd say it's still an off limits topic... similar to any past relationship... but if he wants to talk about it.. just listen... you can simply say... i can't even imagine what that's like.... you don't need to be able to say anything... if he's over her and ready to date... i think he won't talk about it too much in the first few dates....


btw... Alaska (the guy i dated who moved back to alaska) was a widower...


Loonybunny

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In reply to: msmsavannah
Sat, 05-17-2008 - 1:51pm
I'd say to let him bring it up. At least w/in the 1st few dates. Poor guy - thats so tough!

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In reply to: msmsavannah
Sat, 05-17-2008 - 2:10pm

Thanks Loony!


He brought it up in his first email so I feel I should at least acknowledge it.

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In reply to: msmsavannah
Sat, 05-17-2008 - 2:18pm

Thanks Rebecca!

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In reply to: msmsavannah
Sat, 05-17-2008 - 4:26pm

great! look forward to hearing about the first meeting.