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| Fri, 04-20-2007 - 11:10am |
I just wanted to thank all of you who responded. He thinks that everything is back to normal now because I actually laughed at something he said. Okaaaaay....I haven't changed my mood any but because I laughed, we are on the same playing field. Whatever. I tense up every time I see his number come up on my phone. He seems to be respecting my wishes right now and will ask me if something is okay but I don't think it is going to last long. We will see.
I have a few answers to some of the replies too:
Shrimpy -- Good post. I know I need to do something and I am trying to figure out exactly how to carry it out without just smacking him in the face with "Get out of my face". lol I wonder how long this respect thing will last with him.
tj -- We HAVE talked on the phone between emails and that is where the "poor me" voice came from. I have been brutally honest on the phone with him as well and came close to blowing my stack which NEVER happens. I have the patience of Job. lol He could tell he was upsetting me and I'm glad. Now if he would just LISTEN to the words that are coming out of my mouth...
Flo -- Just wanted to say hi back to you. :)
I guess I will see how he can handle not seeing Logan and I for 2 days. Doesn't that sound bad? I swear. He says he respects my wishes with Logan yet he came over Monday, came to his game Tuesday night, last night, wanted to take us out to dinner tonight, and come to opening day for Logan's ball game Sunday. Uhmmmmm...5 days out of 7. I guess if we don't get to spend the whole day together it doesn't really count as a lot of time. I canceled the dinner for tonight because I told him that we had to go get pictures taken Sat morning, were going to the zoo out of town, and then opening day was Sunday and I wanted to have some down time with Logan. After I said that he had considered changing dinner to Saturday night. I told him no. Hellooooooooo??!!! I told him we were going to be tired.
His mom isn't doing well right now and I DO feel bad about that. She had back surgery yesterday and lost more blood than she should. Her blood pressure keeps bottoming out and naturally he is worried. He told me she keeps asking how I'm doing. She is a nice lady.
Jennifer (just waiting it out for right now and may not have to wait long unfortunately!)
