Thinking of moving again....
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Thinking of moving again....
| Tue, 09-04-2007 - 12:24pm |
It's been so hard the last two years living in a place with no family and friends that I am highly considering a move back to San Antonio, Texas where I still have old friends and family. I really love it here, but only because of the sceneary, not because I have something keeping me. Texas is so dry and ugly and hot. Here it's beautiful, but beauty doesn't cut the friendships and family. Alex's dad would be their, her grandmother, my sister and her hubby/kids and then all of the friends I graduated High School with. I just wouldn't feel so alone. I just hate the thought of moving again, but what am I going to do here always being alone? Anyone else feel like a move closer to family was good for them? Even though you liked where you lived?

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I understand the "all or nothing" state of mind. Most people our age are settled down at this point, but for those of us who are still single it is sometimes hard to imagine having a casual relationship with anyone. Personally, I don't know if I would be able to make time for casual dating; it's too distracting and it's a drain on every resource I have. But if it's something I can see as becoming serious, then I'll damn well make time for it. The irony is that in order to know if it's worth investing time in, I have to grow the casual relationships I have into something more which I don't have time for.
I think I've been single for seven years because it's easier just to not deal with it and fly solo. Unfortunately, flying solo sucks.
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