Time for me to hang up my hat

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Time for me to hang up my hat
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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 8:39am

Hello to all:

I hate to write this letter and have thought about it for a few weeks. But after 5 years as CL of Single Mother's and Dating, it is time for me to hang up my hat as CL.

I dearly love the community and I believe I have received more than I have given - which is a lot since my message count is 6844 in this time - but I just don't have the time in my life anymore. And this is a good thing for me - because my business is thriving, I have an almost teen son who requires more time and I am a triathlete who enjoys training more than sitting at the computer. Life is good.

And so, anyone who wants the job should click on "about the boards" and then "want to be a leader" and follow ivillage instructions and see what happens.

I have sent a note to the community moderators and will stay on for a bit for the transition. It is a great opportunity to help and learn from others. And of course I will become a normal person and still stick around - just not every day.

I guess the reason I took on the CL job was because I felt I could really offer something - that I have higher standards and wanted to promote my outlook - which is to get your life together on your own and stop pining for a man to do it - that way you can make better choices and be worth more than just a roll in the sack. I am hoping the next person has this attitude - but maybe they will have a different one or even better. :-)

I believe in the time I have been here that our board has bloomed - we have so many different outlooks here - and quality and expertise and positive support. And I believe it is all of you that make it - not just me - and that it will continue to thrive.

Okay - time to go out on the bike! Don't be sad - this is a great new opportunity for everyone!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 8:43am

Sorry to see you're going but I'm sure we will still see you around.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2006
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 8:46am
Oh West! I bet I am not alone in not expecting this and I cant help but be sad! Of course what you wrote makes perfect sense and it is a testament to how great your life is going for you - kudos for that! But you will be SO MISSED.
Make sure you stick around as a regular - it wouldnt be the same without you here!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-30-2008
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 9:34am
West, I am sorry that yo are leaving but am happy that it is for good reasons. Please keep us posted on your training, ds, and KM. Good luck and train hard.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 10:57am

Judy,


This is such bittersweet news. I am so thrilled that your life is so full and you are happy and that you are doing so well!! It makes perfect sense that you need to fly...and live your life not having to be so tied to the board every day. And sad only because I will miss you, everyone here will miss your leadership, wisdom, and compassion.


I just want to say that you have made a difference in my life by being the leader you have been here. From you I saw a woman who hold high standards and will not settle. Who is strong, beautiful and caring, an incredible mom and a valuable friend. I can't

~Pacific~
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 11:26am

Westie, I just want to thank you for the wonderful job you have done as CL.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 11:34am

Judy, I am truly sorry to see you go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 12:07pm

It's been a wonderful 4 yrs co hosting the board with you Judy- you BETTER stick around now that you've taken off your hat!

Al- missing Judy already...

The boy

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2006
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 12:29pm

West - you have been an incredible inspiration on this board from your sage advice, to your unwavering motivation, to your soft and ever-present shoulder.

Rosecolouredspecs
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 12:34pm

Yay for you, Judy- for having such a full and busy life!


I know the time and commitment it takes to be a CL (all those behind-the-scenes stuff too- like board reports!)- and to make sure everyone is greeted and welcomed... so while I join the others in not wanting you to step down, I fully understand why! It is good to know that Alison is still here and the rest of the boardies are good at making sure the posts are noticed. It's always been quite the team effort anyway.


I'm glad you're not leaving completely- and will keep on checking in!

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
Wed, 08-13-2008 - 12:48pm

I will be sad to see you go!

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