Told Averey today ...

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Told Averey today ...
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Sun, 12-02-2007 - 7:32pm

Maybe it will be a delayed reaction later for her, but she seems ok -

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sun, 12-02-2007 - 8:10pm
Hi there, newish here, had posted my intro last wk.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:25am

That sounds like a very good start and that you both handled it very well. I know you are doing a great job and you are doing the very best that you can.

Hopefully this first week goes okay and then everything settles in for a while. I guess it may take a fair bit of time before your exh can realize he cannot put her in harms way - but of course there is the possibility that may never happen.

I think it is good that you did all of this and will now allow her to be harmed with his vindictive actions and bad temper. You surely do NOT want him for a male role model in her life - imagine how you would feel if she started dating men like that when she got older.

Better times are ahead!

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Registered: 09-01-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 12:37pm

PHEW!!!!

Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 2:54pm
I will keep you both in my prayers, Averey especially. It's so hard to see your child in such turmoil all of which is none of her fault. I think you have been handling the situation splendidly.