Told BG...what a mess!!!

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Told BG...what a mess!!!
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Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:31pm

So I sent BG and email last night and told him that I wanted to step back, take a break and explore other avenues.

Cat

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:41pm

Awwwww sweetie!!

 
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:42pm

Oh no he didn't!!!!!!!!


So he tells you he doesn't want a relationship, moves out of town, went on Match.com when you two were "exlusive" and then he has the NERVE to tell you that YOU broke HIS heart?

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:54pm

Cat, please take a look at what this is....

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:02pm

Do not, I repeat do not let this man guilt trip you.

~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-09-2005
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:20pm

Yeah..."you suck".

Cat
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:24pm

(((((((CAT))))))))


I'm sorry. I know you saw the writing on the wall but it doesn't really hit home until the true colors show. I think he showed his true colors in that text.


It does hurt to lose a friend. But you will find others who will be best friends AND support you without name calling and being childish.


Hugs......wish I could come over and share a pint of Ben and Jerrys with ya.

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-09-2005
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:24pm

Exactly, Isys!

Cat
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:28pm

" I feel great relief but great sadness...I've lost my best friend. He was a real anchor for me during the last year but I spent 8 month standing by him when he lost his job and the thanks I got was emotional unavailability."

Awwww! That really hit home for me. BTDT (except it wasn't a job loss)and it is tough! Do not let him try and put the blame and guilt on you. I know exactly what you mean when you say you feel a relief AND sadness. I promise it will pass and you will look back on things and KNOW that you deserve alot better!

Sending lots of chocolate and sympathy your way!!
Steph

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 1:53pm

I understand your sadness.

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 2:07pm
I have a friend that want's to ride up the coast so we might do that and make arrangements to shop by and see ya.
Cat

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