Told BG...what a mess!!!
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Told BG...what a mess!!!
| Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:31pm |
So I sent BG and email last night and told him that I wanted to step back, take a break and explore other avenues.
| Mon, 07-28-2008 - 12:31pm |
So I sent BG and email last night and told him that I wanted to step back, take a break and explore other avenues.
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Let me know!!! I would love to see you! Have you heard of the Cold Springs Tavern? Its a local hangout where riders meet. Its just
Haha- you suck! OMG! Even my SON, who is EIGHT is more articulate!!!
"So that's where I am. I'm feeling so raw and hurt by his reaction. I never imagined in a million years he would even care that I decided to go. "
He DOESN'T care that you decided to go, so wipe that out of your head- he's just mad that he can't manipulate you anymore to get what he wants, so yes, he's going to throw a temper tantrum!
I wouldn't talk to him tonight, don't explain yourself again- just wait it out and move on.
As for the group, the less said the better... do they even know you two were a "serious item"? People just want the gossip about what happened, and you deflect that by being the higher person and saying, "you'd have to ask BG".
And truly, what can he say about you? You gave him 150%, you were there for him through thick and thin and were willing to put up with him giving 2% and taking it back... gee- who looks like the bad guy?
This is a knee jerk reaction to rejection in my mind, from what you have written, and is not an indication of him feeling the way you do and wanting what you want.
I think you have to give it a little time and space and you can see each other after time. Hopefully he is not around so much so you don't have drama in your club!!
Sorry you have had all this confusion with him but I think this is the final nail in the coffin - it is all about him.
Thank you all so much for your support.
Well, I'm glad you're not falling for his tantrum!
Stay strong, any time you feel like calling him, call someone else or come here to vent!!!
Good for you!!!!
You will feel more and more empowered as the time gets closer! :)
Sounds like he wants to take and not give back. Oh boy. Do I know that situation. You deserve someone who can give too.
Laurie
You are so right. I once heard "you never reallly know anyone until you divorce them" ... Lord knows that proved right with ME!
You did the right thing! FOR SURE.
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