Too good to be true

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2007
Too good to be true
18
Sat, 04-14-2007 - 10:39am

Always is. Well it had to happen. My new guy showed his true colors, and they wer'nt pretty. we had our first arguement, and from the way he carried it on, I'm soo done, running in fact. My ex "it" was the master of control and mind games, and I learned well, and I saw this new guys games and was gone. he gave me 12 hours of the silent treatment, was rude to my son, and then wouldnt stop texting me that I needed to get over it or it was over. So it's over. I should have saw it coming, it was to good to fast, but I didnt want to let my past cloud my judgement, and I wanted so badly to have someone, so i ignored all the big red flags..Oh well, it's only been 3 weeks, and I dont love him yet, so it's easy to walk away.

I must say I'm pretty proud of myself for not letting the control take hold of me, and I also realized how much I like sleeping in my own bed, alone, and just being me hanging out at my house doing my thing. Today I get my waxing done, get my nails filled, tomorrow is shopping with a g/f, kido is gone on vacation, and I have a final next week that I havent had time to study for, so I can do that.I guess I've spoiled myself. I put a big dent in the chocolate bunny lst night, and it felt great!!

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 8:34pm
That was probably the red flag you were wondering about earlier. I think we are all much wiser now and would not miss such things.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 10:59pm
I swear - we ARE totally divorced from the SAME MAN!!!

Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 11:01pm

From one "egg lover" (although MINE arent egg shaped!) lol, to another ... i totally get what you mean. & there is NOTHING better than a guy who likes your toys too!

Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2006
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 1:11am
maybe we should start a new thread about *eggs* -- I'd could/would use those recommendations too! LOL
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 9:07am

K- Im already known as the iV slut ... so YOU start the thread & *I* will add in!

Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2007
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 10:53am

I could definately use the recommendations too...... especially since I am not as brave as all of you and cant get the guts up to do the online dating thing??!!!!!!!! I have come to the conclusion that I will be alone for the rest of my life. So the more toys the better....lol

Jackie

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2007
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 9:29am

Oh god Jackie tell me about it,, my physic told me I would meet the man of my dreams in May,, well, I just dont see how. I am glad to have had this expierence with this guy, cause I really did like him, and I know I am capable of caring for someone again. I have been alone so long I thought I had grown cold hearted, but I can love again, and will, just not until it's right. Thats another thing I'm happy about, I didnt fall madly in love with him, I took it slowly with my heart,,,,

Anyways, thank God for toys of all shapes and sizes, and thank God there are men out there who dont mind them one bit...

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 9:56am

I love bargains! I also love ON stuff for my kids- and for me! The kids especially like them, and they always seem to fit them better than other brands. My son is insanely tall for his age, but has a tiny waist and not butt. My daughter is small for her age, with no tummy (actually, you can see her ab muscles) and long arms and legs, so it's difficult to find clothes that are long enough yet not three sizes too big around the waist for either of them.

I love their prices, and I adore the clearance racks of any store I'm shopping in.

Good for you- bargain hunting should be a sport!

Moody, missing shopping


Powered by CGISpy.com

Pages