Too soon?

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Too soon?
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Mon, 04-26-2010 - 3:55pm

So I am still see talking with BND (boy next door) and PHD but they are progressing slowly so not much interaction to report.


New to Town guy and I have been in constant contact and I have been out with him a couple of times now.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: msmsavannah
Mon, 04-26-2010 - 4:12pm

I have not idea how soon is too soon.

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Registered: 10-06-2008
In reply to: msmsavannah
Mon, 04-26-2010 - 10:26pm
CD and I used to hang out and watch movies when we first started dating and it was fun.(Still is!) BUT we live in a rural area, not much to do dating wise.
I'd say do what feels comfortable. When the time is right it will feel like the right thing to do. Slow and steady wins the race!
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Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: msmsavannah
Tue, 04-27-2010 - 2:14pm
I just wanted to say that I think you and I have thought along the same lines a bunch of times in the past and we do here as well. I think it IS perhaps too soon to get comfy on the couch with the tv. He should be wooing still and you should be swooning a bit and as wonderful as the series LOST is - if you go down that tv and couch road, you may not find your way back to classic romance for a while...Then there is the idea of "the chase" and letting him pursue. It is pretty well documented that men NEED this to keep interest and I also think women do too because it makes them feel desirable and sought after. These are pretty primal things that help the longevity of things IMO.
Glad to hear things are going this well though. Awesome for you!!!
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In reply to: msmsavannah
Tue, 04-27-2010 - 11:02pm
you may recall that MM and I started out watching our favorite show together as friends. It was a great ice breaker for us. And it sparked some interesting conversations. And later he still took me out to nice restaurants and other more traditional dates. So i don't think it's too soon.
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Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: msmsavannah
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 12:45am
Yes, but they arent meeting as friends - they have already been dating so this is different IMO...
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In reply to: msmsavannah
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 12:13pm

I think I agree that there isn't a right or wrong but it all comes down to the comfort level of the individuals.

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Registered: 04-14-2006
In reply to: msmsavannah
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 12:56pm
I agree w/ you in that if you're questioning if it's too soon, then it's too soon for your own comfort level.