Totally lost it!

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Totally lost it!
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 9:38am

OK so an update on me...selfish yes. I have only been lurking lately and im feeling guilty about it. I have been keeping up with everyone and even the new faces but have not had the umpf to post since i dont want to come off as negative even if its not meant to be. Am i making sense or rambling? Im freakin lost and feel like the ship is taking on water by the bucket loads...so take a breath and sit back if your up for some more 'woe is me crap' from yours truly.


1. The prince and I (im now going to refer to him as FP for all future postings - frog prince and i think you will see why). We have been really cooling off in a major way. Im so beyond annoyed with him. We dont talk..not two words. Hes a mute and its exhausting. He says he doesnt want to say the wrong things. I know i snap at him but its usually over DD. He gets her really wound up and crazy when they play. She plays hard and she end sup jumping off furniture and hurling herself into him and while they are playing. Yes its great that she plays with him HOWEVER when i need some pack up with rules there is none and then he pouts like hes in a time out as well. Infuriating really. We went to the zoo dinner and we literally said two words the

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 12:58pm

Last night she told me she didnt have a daddy. OMG my heart just sunk. i think its because he was at work on her visit and all the other fathers at her daycare share the pick up days with the moms. I told her she does have a daddy and he lives at his house and she will visit again next week.


This is so hard with young ones--sometimes you think they get it and then wham!

April

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 1:04pm

Thanks, Pac.

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 1:09pm

It was abig one way out of left field. I would have NEVEr thought it would come from her at this age. I was expecting around 5 or so but 2...good grief.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 1:14pm

I can relate to how it is having dd for more unexpected weekends and thus less time for real dates. I know you will sail through this without issues. But still I know it can be hard sometimes.


Ooh it sounds like you are getting to be quite the golfer! How's your game?


Yeah, I'm leaving tomorrow around Noon Coming back in about 10 days.

~Pacific~
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 1:51pm

Ooh it sounds like you are getting to be quite the golfer! How's your game?


I've actually played for about 16 years.

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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 2:02pm

I've never played "real" golf- I would love to try but dang it's expensive! So I opt for the "poor mans" golf lol! No green fees on the DG course. Hey 80/90 is good! You ARE keepin up with the boys! On the DG course course par is 54. I'm averaging 60, and the guys I play with are starting to take me seriously finally!


DD will stay a week and a half longer up there. So she'll come home the following Tuesday. I will enjoy the kid free time but miss her of course like I always do!


~Pacific~
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 3:48pm

I don't play "real " golf either, but M is an avid golfer. He's never shown much interest in sharing that activity with me, probably because I don't show any interest in it. But D4 is quite the little putt putt golfer. She doesn't even hold the club correctly has actually made the shot in three strokes. Heck, I usually need six strokes.

Rlch was talking a while back about a wedding in Palm Springs in the fall. I think we really should make an official SMAD get together, whoever can come, have a round of golf somewhere- group lesson or something- and lots of margaritas by the pool.

QB

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 1:45am

Rlch was talking a while back about a wedding in Palm Springs in the fall. I think we really should make an official SMAD get together, whoever can come, have a round of golf somewhere- group lesson or something- and lots of margaritas by the pool.


I will second that!


Lets start planning!!!

mom_uk2socal

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 06-27-2008 - 10:33am

I'd so be there!


I can make a MAD margarita!!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~

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