Tried to have "the talk"
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Tried to have "the talk"
| Fri, 10-10-2008 - 1:50pm |
So last night MB came over about 11pm (he got caught up on something and missed our fav show but I was glad he came over anyway.)
I wanted to have the big state of the union talk, but I also didn't want it to feel forced, and I didn't want him to think I had been mulling over it as much as I have.

Hmmm. Well it sounds like he is receptive but might need another little nudge to jump onto the same side of the fence as you? I does not sound like he's still playing the field. Sounds like he's tired of that, but just has not labled your relationship yet. I think it would be fine to bring it up again later. Just let him know that if you are physical with him then you need to know he's not seeing or pursuing anyone else. Sounds to me he is close to that, from your conversation even though it was not very clear.
I think it is very good for us as women to say what we need especially as far as being exclusive. Its importaint for us to put our needs right up there with theirs. I think we sometimes give so much thought and consideration to their feelings ...ie not wanting to scare them, that we sometimes hide our own.
Be true to yourself! Say what ya need to say...as the song goes :o)
If you fail once, try and try again! :) I agree with Pac, let him know what you want and your feelings when having the talk. I'm proud of you that you did it! Wine or not, you at least tried and that is important! :)
Best luck and wishes! Have a great weekend!
Thanks ladies...