Try flirting at a gay bar.....
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| Mon, 02-19-2007 - 12:32pm |
I had an interesting/crazy Friday... Ever go to a gay bar? Try flirting there... it was very confusing. A coworker invited a bunch of us to a gay bar to see the drag queen show. Something different so I went....
I had fun hanging with the coworkers (shocked to learn that a few are gay). But that put my guard down... I almost feel like he's one of the girls now... and I can tell him who I have crushes on... but I won't because he might tell... Anyway... after I got there and I tried looking around to make eye contact... Wow, I was confused. So needless to say I didn't meet anyone, but I had fun dancing. Did you know everyone looks gay in a gay bar? I wonder how I looked, but someone at the bar said "you are sooo straight" when I ordered my drink. I did dress kinda froo-froo on purpose. The drag queen performers said, where are all the straight folk... many people cheered and I tried to see who they were... then she/he asked where are all the gay folk... and that's when my coworker cheered and I found out he was gay. Ya learn new things everyday...
So that was my wild night.
On Saturday I got a text message from a coworker about another getogether but once a weekend was enough for me. But I'm happy that i am getting inviting to more outings with the coworkers. How cool.
LB

I have been to a lot of bars - but can't really remember a gay bar. I would think the drag queens would be a total hoot to watch - I remember one time when I was in Las Vegas I ran into one in the grocery store. "She" was buying ice cream. She was more dressed up than me - complete with mini-skirt, high heels and fish net stockings. Hilarity at its finest.
I guess you have to look at that for the entertainment factor. LOL!!
I haven't ever been to a gay bar, but I bet it could be a lot of fun. It sounds like you're beginning to feel as if you fit in with some of your coworkers, and that's great.
Keep having fun, you never know who you'll meet, or who they might know!
Moody, all about the fun in life
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My best friend is gay, and as a result, I have spent a fair few evenings in gay bars/discos. Lots of fun, but no surprise I was single for quite a few years! Still, I wasn't really looking to meet anyone, just enjoy myself with my friends, dance and have a laugh. I really enjoyed that period of my life, but it doesn't appeal any more. Too crazy!
Clem xx
That's totally it... I feel better about hanging with the coworkers... I even told my gay friend that I think my other coworker is cute... I had been drinking and he left early, so I said, "that's a good thing or I might have started hitting on him." Then my gay friend says, "he's my best friend but he's a player." Hmmmm, good to know ahead of time. I didn't spill all my guts but he seems like one of the girls now. I probably won't go often to a gay bar, but it was certainly a different/new experience. I had fun dancing....but karaoke is still my favorite. One of these days I'll get the coworkers out for karaoke. I'll keep you posted.
LB
GAY BARS!!!!
Love them...only been to a few but WOW...I come out wondering why men aren't kissing my feet. Here is the thing, if you're going then VAMP IT UP! Oh, and PS they LOVE BOOBS! Low cut tops are mandatory and hot shoes.
Every time I've been we compliment all the hot ones and talk and laugh and get compliments and it's so out of control but so carefree. If I could go more I probably would!! Plus all the guys smell good, look good, and aren't interested but LOVE to give compliments....it's an A+ night for sure.
Glad you had fun...share next time you go!!
~ drgnflygrl, looking for her RED lipstick