Trying to make it through today...

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Trying to make it through today...
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Wed, 10-29-2008 - 11:41pm

So, I was married 10 years, he was a jerk in a lot of ways, although had some good qualities too, we have 3 kids who are 10,9 and 5. After our divorce last year, he went through alot of "changes" and he won me back. (Neither one of us dated anyone after the divorce) I put my whole heart into the new relationship, we had a few bumps, but thought things were good, I was happy. Well apparently he wasn't and got upset because I said something he didn't like and he called it off. That was almost 2 months ago. This has been harder to deal with then the actual divorce. I have been working on trying to better myself and try and am allowing myself to grieve but I'm just stuck. I put up

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 11:58pm

Aww Jen (((((HUGS)))))

You'll be ok sweetie.

Take some time for you, forget about dating. You're not ready and you're just going to make yourself MORE sad and feel MORE disconnected if you do.

It's you time- go have some fun rediscovering YOU without your ex.

The boy

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 1:23am
Oh sweetie (((HUGS))) you went through the emotional wringer with him more than once and that's gonna hurt. Any girlfriends close by? A Girl's Night Out might make you feel better.
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