Trying patience - found an ironman

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Trying patience - found an ironman
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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 3:24pm

Okay. I found an ironman - but it is a race I want to do!! LOL!!

Anyway, I am trying to have patience with these 3 but think I do not.

The golfer as I have said has peculiar facial expressions that are girly to me and he agrees with me too much, even going so far as to repeat what I say. The conversation is not anything but topical. Yesterday he sent a one-line message through match asking what is new? And so I sent a one line message back - not too much - just work - how about you?

The swimcoach annoyed me last night on the phone. Apparently he is out of school (he is a teacher) right now and he loves long conversations on the phone late at night. I don't. I tried to get off but he kept blabbing and blabbing and can be negative. I guess you could say he put me off. He was asking me about what his competition was. And I don't want to get into all that.

The lifeguard is so fun and funny - we have been emailing each other back and forth just silly stuff. This is what I want - fun and funny. But I don't think he is looking for a relationship. The ball is in his court for going forward with dates or anything else. But my expectations are in order.

No new ones yet. And I am not caring too much. I am happy that I signed up for my big race next spring and ready to get to work. My son sent me the most beautiful email message this morning saying how proud he is and how he is going to help me reach my goal.

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 06-21-2007 - 9:50am

ok, you know me: Emotional! LOL. I would have been bawling! My girls always say the coolest things to me that just make me cry. Kids just give you this unbelievable strength that makes you feel you can climb walls and make you break records!!

Oh yeah, on the "not my type". As you said, I can totally relate to that. M met Jesus sandals the weekend before last. He kept saying: He is NOT what you made me think he was.

M thought he was a good looking guy. I said, no, not to me. He's got HAIR all over in the wrong places and he's 12 years older then me. M didn't notice at all, but I DO. LOL.

Jesus Sandals is really really fit and athletic, so I think M was taken aback that I just don't care. M isn't in the best of shapes, but he doesn't have ear or nose hair and that's all that matters to me. LOL And the best part is, he never will, because he knows how much it groesses me out. He'll be watching very carefully that everything is kept cleaned and trimmed.

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