Turned off the phone...VENTING!!!

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Turned off the phone...VENTING!!!
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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 12:19am
and had dd put it away..I called MCDAD at about 7...after I saw he was online.....he didn't pick up..so......dd says give him a day...me....just sad.....I just have to put it out there......interested in seeing if we have potential or just FWB......benefit of the doubt?..long weekend?? No answers but starting to see...

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 12:30am

Hmmm- I'd be a little upset as well!


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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 12:36am

The danger of sending an email out with an important question is that you don't know if the recipient got it or not or if he did then not getting an immediate answer plus it could be subject to misinterpretation. My take is for any important questions or issues that need answers or to be discussed then it's best to do it face-to-face to get the full benefit of communication with the body language.

Whenever I don't hear from someone then I make up stories in my head and usually they are not good ones. Funny I just heard from Cute Newly Divorced Gal via MySpace thanking me for a book I left her last Tuesday. I was making up a story on how inconsiderate she is and that she blew me off.

Mark

We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb




Edited 4/21/2008 12:39 am ET by mhash
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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 6:51am

To see him online when you have been intimate is painful - and unfortunately probably a good idea of where his head is at.

No matter the pain - you must know that this is a lesson for the next time.

If I was you I would try to forget about him unless he calls and if he does then clarify right away.

You deserve someone who wants to be exclusive with you. Keep us posted.

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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 7:52am

Tiny--give it more than a day--make him come to you!

April

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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 10:41am

you mean you didn't call 5 - 10 times like me.... ? LOL


I feel you .... when a guy disappoints us.... it hurts.... I hope you focus on the positive.... YOU have gotten back out there.... YOU are a fun and attractive woman.... there will be others and YOU get to choose.


Hugs,


Loonybunny


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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 12:07pm

Give him a day?

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Mon, 04-21-2008 - 3:04pm

Tiny-


I agree with the otehrs here. Do not call him. I KNOW how hard that is because you want ansers, darn it! Men do go through an evaluation period in their heads. They start to get close to a woman and then go into the cave to think things out. Sometimes they even consider other people diring this time but I suppose it is a necesssary thing some men go through. It won't help to call him or email him though. Let him come to you and use this time to think about wheter you want HIM or not.


This is a difficult thing for many of us- but you can do this and like the others mentioned, you can be productive and happy with yourself!


Keep us posted- and try to keep your mind on other things :o)


~Pacific~