uncomfortable email...

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2008
uncomfortable email...
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Fri, 08-29-2008 - 2:18pm

Im compelled to send an email...and I want your guys input before I do....


Background....a guy I dated for almost 3 years - a relationship the was sometimes very good but when it was bad it was really bad.

JH

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 3:24pm
Are you beginning to hate me like you hated your 10th grade English composition teacher who made you rewrote your final paper 10,000 times? LOL!!! :-)
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 3:27pm

HA HA!! Sending this email is just about as fun as that...But I don't hate you.

JH

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 3:32pm

My thoughts-


Your original email was very thoughtful. I agree with Moon and the others though, too much info he does need to hear. Save that for your own journal, for personal closure and send the condensed, to the point version.


It is good to hear that you are closing this chapter. BE just went through all of this with BroomHilda and he had to finally tell her to let him go just like you are doing now. Its is important for you and SS to clean the slate here. I very much like the edited and condensed version you came up with. The last few sentences says it all.And saying you have moved forward is fine. BE had make it clear to BH that her interferance and calls were destructive to his new relationship with me.


Good luck and

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Registered: 07-15-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 3:56pm

Thanks Pac...

JH

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 4:02pm
You, my dear, get an A+!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-15-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 4:15pm

Well, he already responded....I didn't think about it before but all I texted back was "I will email you" so he was probably sitting there waiting for it.

JH

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 4:26pm

YES!!!!


A very good response from him indeed! Way to go for putting it out there the way you did. Your brief email got the point accross with blaming, guilting or being harsh..you were just true and real.


I really like that he did not reply with drama or being a victim. This is very good. Now time to look forward, clean slate with SS.


Good job!!

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 4:30pm
Good!
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Registered: 08-21-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 6:05pm
I agree with the other posts.
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Registered: 03-19-2008
Fri, 08-29-2008 - 6:17pm

Tiara,


It sounds like you are doing really well, aside from this email that you have to send out. I think its well written and

anonymous