Happy Thanksgiving and welcome! I have SO been in your boat and the only thing I can tell you is that wishing it is going to change is not going to make it change. I think the only way for you to forget about him is not to see him. I am sorry you have to go through this. But I know if you move on you will have a very good chance of meeting someone very special!!
Thanks for your reply and Happy Thanksgiving to you also. I don't see him very often, just maybe sometimes at a ballgame or something else in the community. I hope I can move on because its obvious that he is not going to change his mind.
Thanks for being honest. I needed to hear that. He also told me that he is not good enough for a nice woman like me. He told me I meant more to him than a one night stand, so I guess that what he wants. Sometimes I get mixed messages from him. Last year he sent me flowers on Valentines Day. The card was not romantic, it just said Happy Valentines Day. I have tried to get interested in other men, but they did not work out. He is
Hi mom, welcome to the board.
The problem with the statements of "I'm not ready for a relationship" is that they're not finished.