Unlucky in love

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
Unlucky in love
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Thu, 11-22-2007 - 11:56am

Hello,


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: mom382007
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 1:22pm
Happy Thanksgiving and welcome! I have SO been in your boat and the only thing I can tell you is that wishing it is going to change is not going to make it change. I think the only way for you to forget about him is not to see him. I am sorry you have to go through this. But I know if you move on you will have a very good chance of meeting someone very special!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
In reply to: mom382007
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 4:51pm
Thanks for your reply and Happy Thanksgiving to you also. I don't see him very often, just maybe sometimes at a ballgame or something else in the community. I hope I can move on because its obvious that he is not going to change his mind.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: mom382007
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 5:44pm

Hi mom, welcome to the board.


The problem with the statements of "I'm not ready for a relationship" is that they're not finished.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2007
In reply to: mom382007
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 6:43pm
Thanks for being honest. I needed to hear that. He also told me that he is not good enough for a nice woman like me. He told me I meant more to him than a one night stand, so I guess that what he wants. Sometimes I get mixed messages from him. Last year he sent me flowers on Valentines Day. The card was not romantic, it just said Happy Valentines Day. I have tried to get interested in other men, but they did not work out. He is