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Wed, 11-15-2006 - 3:54pm

Just warning you now, a lot has been going on so I'll probably be babbling all over the place.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: kirarulez
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 4:22pm

I think it is good that you are going slow. You get a big blue ribbon for that!!

Okay - what I would do if I was you - I would wait and see for Xmas. Because if you think about too much in advance you worry too much. Why don't you say you will make a spontaneous decision that week. Maybe you can each spend Xmas morning with your own family and then mix a little in the evening? You might be more festive and want to do that by that time.

Take each day one at a time. You have a good head on your shoulders by everything you have said and done so far and you will know what to do that is good for you and DS.

Do keep us posted with details!! :-)

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Registered: 02-08-2006
In reply to: kirarulez
Wed, 11-15-2006 - 9:32pm
Everything so far sounds great. As far as Christmas, don't worry too much about it. What I might do is each "do" Christmas seperately, then have him over for coffee or dessert with your family, and maybe you go to his the night before or something.
No pressure for gifts, it's all very low-key, and everyone still gets to see everyone, which is really what it's supposed to be about, right?
Either way, just keep doing what you're doing, since things sound good so far.

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