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| Fri, 07-25-2008 - 2:02pm |
I have been working a lot lately and trying to slip in some time with big guy. Well we had what I think is going to be our final date last night. I really like this guy and he would make any girl a great boyfriend but I just can not get past the weight. He came in for the goodnight kiss last night and a hug...and I was just like..UGH. No sparks. And this is not funny...in fact it is slightly tragic. I am so short (4ft 11 and 3/4) My arms could not really even get around him to hug him so...I just was like...ugh.

I would tell him point blank - I really like you as a person and I appreciate the time we had. I was really hoping sparks would come about for me - but there is just something missing on my end and I am sorry about that because you are so nice. But I wish you well in your search.
You did your very best. I wish there would be sparks. But I also understand that when there are no sparks you cannot manufacture them. I wish I knew of a way? Or that someone else here had the magic answer.
That is a shame because he was such a nice guy. <:-(
YES - be direct and be honest.
I am sorry its ending for you. I had hopes you would get past the weight thing. My husband got overweight and I was turned off. But then I have this wonderful friend who is overweight and I am still attracted to him. His personality makes up for it.
There are ways to break it off without hurting his feelings about the weight. You could say you just didnt feel the same attraction.
Laurie