Update.. already.. Older guy..
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Update.. already.. Older guy..
| Sat, 05-24-2008 - 10:05am |
Ok, well that guy who I had my lunch date with yesterday.
| Sat, 05-24-2008 - 10:05am |
Ok, well that guy who I had my lunch date with yesterday.
Yay for you.. Biker is 10+ years older than me. I always wanted to go out with him and see how it is. Okay in our case, I am the one who made first moves in every aspect (but he wass great to follow through). He had hesitation coz I am younger and we work together.. I surprised myself by breaking ruls with him.It is just taht he was a total gentleman and I trusted him and was confortable opening up that way.
I think with this guy ( we need a name for him) you are comfortable..Second date sex seems bit forward..But hey you felt like it.. So it is okay. Let him know that what happned is may be not normal for you and you did it only coz you felt comfortable with him. So that he doesnt end up thinking that this is your normal way with guys.
Also the age difference is something to think about if you want a long term relationship. With Biker, I just went with the flow and was feeling this rush ( was wet just ebing in same room with him ..sorry TMI), but then after a while reality sets in- you start seeing his signs of aging ect.. SO you should see the real person and be sure you want a LTR before going too far.
But for now, I would say have fun.
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Whoa! You give us old guys hope Sara LOL!
Dang, now I can only hope that Gem Girl is like that then *I'll* be in heaven as well!
Mark who now needs a cold shower after reading about the hot tub ...
I am soooo begind on this board but I saw your post and could not resist replying.
I'm in a relationship with a guy 14 years older than me and I can soo relate to the chemistry pull and the non resistance to holding back. I was reading your post knowing just how you felt! There really is something about an older guy to me, at least with the older guy I'm with. For me it is the confidance, experience I sense.
Whoo hoo on the hot steamy date! Don't over think it or feel bad about jumping in. Sometimes things can take off that way, especially if you do plan a date with him mid week to talk and get to know him even better :o)
I'm looking forward to the next