Update on Cute Neighbor

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Update on Cute Neighbor
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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 11:39am

Wow... very active board today... im still dragging from being out late last night....


Update on Cute Neighbor... ya know who he looks like... Peter Petrelli from Heroes.... I'm pleased to say that i didn't go over to his apartment.... He's so adorable though... I just felt like he isn't showing me that he's interested... and i'm not gonna be just one of his girls... ya know....


I'll talk to him when i'm out though since I see him at almost all the neighborhood places.... Last night I was at my neighborhood karaoke just hanging out... Chatting with about 5 people.... finally at the end of the night, Cute Neighbor came over to say hi..... asked me that if i still had his number, i should call

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 12:12pm

"he didn't still have my number though... and didn't asked for it again. Which made me think we're friends but he's not interested...."

GOOD!!!

"so i did give him a ride and that's when he invited me in.... but i said, you're adorable but no"

DOUBLE GOOD!!!!

"i didn't want to be an afterthought for him"

TRIPLE GOOD!!

You had a home run because you got out and you put you first!!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 2:26pm

"he didn't still have my number though... and didn't asked for it again. Which made me think we're friends but he's not interested.... "


Um... no... this means you were a hookup last time, not friends... you don't lose a friend's number...


"But as i was leaving he was still outside.. someone had run into the building next door... a little drama going on... then he asked if i'd give him a ride


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Thu, 06-19-2008 - 3:59pm

I can tell when a guy isn't interested and i didn't want to be an afterthought for him....


That is good and I totally agree. Why go there when you know it's just sex? Good for you for saying no...maybe that way he will respect you and your friendship can grow at the very least, right? Besides...you're so bubbly and cute you don't need to be ANYONES afterthought..you deserve to be a great guys' FIRST and ONLY thought :o)


I'm glad you had fun last night!! Now go get some rest, LOL!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 7:36pm
Not exactly the kind of homerun i was looking for... but thank you. I'll take it. ;-)
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 7:46pm

LOL!! That is a funny way of looking at it! I guess it was too early in the morning here when I posted that!!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 7:58pm

Wow you are really harsh on him...


I cut him some slack because he's so young... 12 years younger to be exact.. lol... i know at that age he's looking for sex.. but i can still consider him my friend even if i say "no"... honestly, i think i'd be more insulted if he didn't even try...


I also know you are not into the bar scene much... let me explain a little about my neighborhood bar... everyone in there are my friends regardless if they are jerks, immature, horn dogs, ugly, cute, too old, too young,

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 8:09pm

"NWB" - we have a new acronym!!

I am not into the bar scene either - BUT - you work late and so I can imagine that you find camaraderie with many who do and it is a way to wind down after work plus we all know you love dancing and karaoke. But it is good you point out the bar benefits for us poor souls who turn down the covers at 10PM!! LOL!!

"I cut him some slack because he's so young... 12 years younger to be exact" - wow that is a compliment to you!! LOL!!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 8:43pm

Sorry honey, but I just have no patience with that attitude- if he wanted to be your friend he would've tried to be your friend, not try to get it on when he sees you at the bar.


I think you're a wonderful, talented and beautiful person= and what a boost that he thinks you're hot!


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Registered: 03-25-2002
Thu, 06-19-2008 - 10:04pm

I wonder if he'll think you said no because of the last, um, get together?

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Registered: 06-18-2006
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 1:45am

Loonybunny,

OMG! I have a similar story. My cute neighbors are a group of college guys and recent graduates that live next door for the summer for work. I have been hanging out with them at neighborhood BBQs etc. There was a group of about 6 to 8 guys. I'm just friends with them although there is some flirting.

I notice one of them looking over at me. We start talking and it's getting late. Cute Neighbor walks me to my door. I invited him in and we're talking and watching videos on YouTube. Then he starts putting the moves on and kisses me. It quickly moves to making out and well, you know the rest ;-) I hadn't planned on having sex with him but he was HOT and irresistible. These early 20 something guys are too tempting...lol.

I'm still recovering from the guy that walked out of my life and left me a voicemail explaining his becoming distant in April (the 32 year old that I saw for 4 months). I'm still a little in shock from that. Obviously, I'm feeling a little lonely and in need of physical affection.

We have hooked up a few times but he decided to end the sex. He felt that it wasn't right for religious reasons. His friends/roommates do not know what happened between us - I trust that he didn't tell them. It's a little awkward hanging out with all of them now. I'm still friends with him but it's a little more distant now. I've grown a lot more emotionally attached to him and obviously like him a lot more than the other guys because we did have sex. I need to control myself around hot, young guys.

I'm glad that things are going well with your Cute Neighbor ;-)

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