Update on DD14

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Update on DD14
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Tue, 12-18-2007 - 10:14am

Good morning,


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Tue, 12-18-2007 - 10:51am

Hey kiddo, you ramble ALL YOU WANT TO! This situation is huge.

Does your DD even know this guy? Did she meet him somewhere prior to all of this that has made him attach himself to her or is she just a random girl that he's infatuated with?

After last month with my DD14, I am soooo feelin for you. When your child is in danger the worry is tremendous.

You and your family remain in my prayers.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 10:55am

Oh how stressful and scary this is, Moon!! I'm glad that you've had some protection, and I'm glad that you had a place to hide your DD... but it's frustrating that you even HAD to do any of this, because the other kid is so dangerous and you can't DO anything about him unless HE DOES SOMETHING first?!?! That just seems so backwards! I would think that the phone threats should be enough to prove that's it's not just a case of teen he said/she said...


I wouldn't be sleeping either. ((((((((((((Moon)))))))))))))


Prayers for her continued protection and safety.


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:03am

Thanks for the update and glad your DD and the family are safe.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:12am

To answer your question - she knows who he is, but they weren't friends.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:15am

Thanks, Shrimps.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:36am

I have only been given limited information, but from what I've been told, his father is in the picture, and is aware of the situation.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 11:57am
OMG - that is so scary, Moon! I would want to change her name, phone number and her school!! But I know it is not all that easy. It sounds like you are very on top of things. Keep us posted and stay safe!
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 12:01pm

Moon....


You know my thoughts and prayers are with you and DD still and I don't think I'll relax either until it is certain this kid is NO THREAT. I just can't imagine. More than likely all the obsession will remain in his head but unfortunatley it's just too great of a risk to ignore, and I am so glad that the authoraties did not ignore his words. It's just crazy! I was also wondering about his parents. I think I would want to contact them and ask them WTF is going on with Jr. Do they even know what he is putting you DD through. I always feel somehow that kids who make threats and get into this kind of trouble seem to have very un-involved parents...or maybe that is a generalization but his dad hopefully has been made aware and I hope he is as concerned as you.


If they let him back in school (and my hope is that they would NOT) it seems to me that he should have to report to the principals office every single morning to get searched..his backpack, pockets, everything. It's great that your DD has escorts and security, but hopefully they make the kid accountable by searching him thoroughly...no matter how "sure" they feel about him.


Love and hugs to you friend. Hang in there....we're all here.

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 12:15pm

I also pray that this boy is not only removed from the school but required to get the correct form of help so that he is no longer a threat to your daughter.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 9:22pm

Yikes.

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