update to exclusive

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Registered: 09-20-2004
update to exclusive
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 5:05pm
Hi everyone, I am new here and have only posted a couple things. I was looking for advice on how to bring up being exclusive with CB who I have been dating for a while. Thank you to those who gave me advice, it really helped.

I was ready to talk to him about it this past weekend when we got together. We went out together Saturday night, I stayed with him that night, and we spent all day Sunday together. Sunday night we were sitting around talking about how nice it was that we got to spend so much time together. (kids were with their dad - doesn't happen much) He started talking about how he would like to meet my kids, meet my family, and that his family(parents, sisters) would really like to meet me. I could go on forever, but to make a long story short he told me he really likes me/wouldn't think of seeing anyone else - and hoped I was feeling the same thing. He brought up everything, I just had to sit there and listen as he made me feel so wonderful. He travels a lot for work and said he didn't want me to worry that he could be seeing someone else when he is gone.(past girlfriend had trust issues and didn't like the traveling thing) We had the best talk. Felt great.

So anyway, I'm a happy girl. My kids are with their dad until tonight, so besides spending sat night/ all day sunday together - he invited me over Monday night for supper, and last night we went out for supper.

One last thing, I was thinking he was going to meet my son for the first time Saturday night(hockey game), that didn't happen. Ends up his seats were on other end of arena, and he couldn't find me in between periods, which is hard to do with the 8000 or so people there. He did say he would have liked to, and hopes he can soon.



iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2003
In reply to: sh100
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 6:55pm
I remember your post…infact, I thought I had posted to you, but it’s not there? Hmmmmph.

Anyway, that’s great news! See? You had nothing to worry about. He sounds like a great guy! Enjoy him!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sh100
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 10:42pm
sounds good!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-25-2004
In reply to: sh100
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 8:38am
This sounds very good indeed. Best wishes to you - keep us posted!!