awww. Can I kick him in the shins for you? PLEASE??
Reading this was almost identicle to something that happened in a relationship of mine a while ago. And when I finally got to the point of letting it go, moving on and being done with it all, he came back with "I made a mistake, please take me back" and that's what i see happening here. To be honest, readying that sounds like he wants to fish around a little more and that's why he's ending things with you.
(((((Hugs)))) I am so sorry.... sorry that it didn't work out the way you would have liked and also sorry that he took the cowards way out and sent you an email to officially end your relationship.
I am sorry that this had to end this way. It seems as though you both wanted different things - and that is okay - because although this one has made you very sad for right now, you will find one better and on the same page because he has taught you what you need and what your goals should be. You want one who sees a future with you and who fits in your life as you do his. You can't blame him for wanting what he wants anymore than the other way around.
I am glad that you didn't spend more time. Although I know and understand your sadness. Do not see him anymore - every day you do not see him you will heal a little more - the recipe for time, people and activities (but NOT him) always works miracles.
For now, rest well when you can and try to keep your days busy with other things.
HUGS!!!!
The others have chimed in with great advice!! And you are very pretty - you will be back out there soon enough with a few more rules and you will do much better. Do not look back.
"And then the jackass turned his phone OFF for the evening."
THAT is just a killer - and especially after that message. But the whole thing of bad news is just never good. Especially when you wanted something different.
It sounds like he is unsure of what he wants. I think you deserve a man who at the very least knows what he wants. My advice...when you feel like contacting him contact us here instead even if you are posting multiple times a day. Thats what we are here for.
awww. Can I kick him in the shins for you? PLEASE??
Reading this was almost identicle to something that happened in a relationship of mine a while ago. And when I finally got to the point of letting it go, moving on and being done with it all, he came back with "I made a mistake, please take me back" and that's what i see happening here. To be honest, readying that sounds like he wants to fish around a little more and that's why he's ending things with you.
Ouch...the band-aid is torn off. But as hard as it is, you know inside this letter
(((((Hugs)))) I am so sorry.... sorry that it didn't work out the way you would have liked and also sorry that he took the cowards way out and sent you an email to officially end your relationship.
Thank you for taking the time to reply...
Oh dear - welcome!!
I am sorry that this had to end this way. It seems as though you both wanted different things - and that is okay - because although this one has made you very sad for right now, you will find one better and on the same page because he has taught you what you need and what your goals should be. You want one who sees a future with you and who fits in your life as you do his. You can't blame him for wanting what he wants anymore than the other way around.
I am glad that you didn't spend more time. Although I know and understand your sadness. Do not see him anymore - every day you do not see him you will heal a little more - the recipe for time, people and activities (but NOT him) always works miracles.
For now, rest well when you can and try to keep your days busy with other things.
HUGS!!!!
The others have chimed in with great advice!! And you are very pretty - you will be back out there soon enough with a few more rules and you will do much better. Do not look back.
"And then the jackass turned his phone OFF for the evening."
THAT is just a killer - and especially after that message. But the whole thing of bad news is just never good. Especially when you wanted something different.
It sounds like he is unsure of what he wants. I think you deserve a man who at the very least knows what he wants. My advice...when you feel like contacting him contact us here instead even if you are posting multiple times a day. Thats what we are here for.