I think Alison has good advice. And rlch is right - you can't play if you don't risk your heart.
But you do have to be true to yourself - if you are thinking he is not going to be in it for the long term it is better to cut right now. I guess you have to get an idea if he is going to move. Because you cannot move - and you do want someone who is here now ready now - it just makes it a lot easier on YOU.
Glad dd is ok! Phew!
As for builder - you know, you cant win, if you dont play. Getting your heart broken SUCKS.
YUCK on the strep throat!
I think Alison has good advice. And rlch is right - you can't play if you don't risk your heart.
But you do have to be true to yourself - if you are thinking he is not going to be in it for the long term it is better to cut right now. I guess you have to get an idea if he is going to move. Because you cannot move - and you do want someone who is here now ready now - it just makes it a lot easier on YOU.