Update on MM

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Update on MM
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Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:26pm

steady flow of emails today and yesterday. he thought my phone joke yesterday was very funny. maybe friend zone is his style when he's getting to know someone. But who knows, when the mystery where's off perhaps i won't be crushing on him.


intellectually we have a lot in common. we have similar humor styles. his only down side

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Registered: 07-14-2007
In reply to: loonybunny
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:34pm

Loony - I am typically all for waiting and letting the man make the first move but in this case, I think you need to be a little more direct and let him no you would be interested if he asked you out. I remember this guy (I believe I met him at one of the karaoke outings...is this right?) I also know he is on match so give it a shot. He is so you; here is his profile:
I'm an educated, professional, down-to-earth, goofy guy who likes getting out and doing things. I enjoy all sorts of stuff, from movies to concerts to playing pool to getting out and enjoying the outdoors through kayaking, biking or hiking. Most of all I enjoy trying new things. I really enjoy cooking but I don't get to do it very often anymore.
Music can be my muse sometimes... from live concerts to the radio to my CD collection. I still have some vinyl records, and if it hadn't been stolen, I'd still have quite a collection of cassette tapes - bought and mixed. Ah, the (sorta) lost art of creating a mix tape... now it's much much much easier, which kinda takes the fun out of it.
I am looking for a woman to have grand adventures with. Someone who I can enjoy hanging out with, who can be interesting on multiple levels. Who is honest with themselves and with those around them. Someone who might have different beliefs than me, but can still have a reasonable conversation about those beliefs.

So what are you waiting for???

I don't see that he is too active these days could it be that a certain loonybunny has caught his eye? I really think you should throw out a simple outing like coffee and see how he responds.




Edited 9/16/2008 10:38 pm ET by msmsavannah
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In reply to: loonybunny
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:50pm

that is toooooo funny. i was wondering if you remembered him from karaoke. Soo, when are you getting back out there with me for karaoke?? either with the group or with your friends. let me know.


that is so funny that you saw him on match. thanks for posting that...


i found his myspace too... a couple weeks ago remember.


So what are you waiting for??? -good question.


LB

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Registered: 07-14-2007
In reply to: loonybunny
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:55pm

when is the next karaoke? *btw I should so be in bed right now but I have work stress keeping me up* April and I are practicing with garage band on my computer.

Of course I remember him and yes you should put it out there.

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Registered: 11-22-2006
In reply to: loonybunny
Tue, 09-16-2008 - 10:55pm
ITA with Savannah. I think there is a natural momentum of things and if you start wondering why things arent budging you have to be willing to do something about it. Allowing for things to get stagnant is sometimes the worst thing that can happen I think....You can do it!
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In reply to: loonybunny
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 2:22am

not this saturday but next saturday.. check out the calendar for details or i can email you... it's not a contest just loads of fun...


citylife, thanks for your input as well. i feel like there is momentum. afterall, last saturday he carried me and we slept next to each other on the couch... at least for a little while.. sure no kiss, but i'd rather save a first kiss for a more sober occasion anyway.


okay so i'm stubborn. i just really think it's

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Registered: 03-19-2008
In reply to: loonybunny
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:12am

"And i wonder who else he's emailing on a daily basis, ya know."

Do you think he has time to email others steadily? I have a feeling youre IT. If he's steadily emailing you and living his regular life how much time left does he have to email other women? Probably not much. Dont worry about something that might not be there. Its harmful to create things to worry about. We have enough in life to worry about. Dont make up more.

Oh he's interested. Have fun with it and see where it goes.

Laurie

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In reply to: loonybunny
Wed, 09-17-2008 - 8:21am

I definitely think he is interested in you.. and the fact that he is not jumping in and asking you says that he is "seriosuly thinking" about it. Which to me a good thing.


I agree with you that you should wait and give him bit more time to get to know you. Just keep up this momentum. If you ask him out and he hasnt got his required time, he will have all sorts of doubts and confusions. I say give it few more weeks. And if he still keeps up communication and is not asking out, you could hint that may be one of these days two of you could go hiking or may be kayaking..or any other activity- rather than just coffee.. Just say "hey I was wondering if you would like to go and do XXXX on saturday". It wont be wierd that way and you can see if he makes any moves when you are together.

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In reply to: loonybunny
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:05pm

Hope this has been good momentum for the week ... a total of 15 emails from him since Monday.